We are expecting our second and having our 20 week scan soon. We didn’t find out with our first and it was such a lovely surprise. However this time I feel quite tempted to find out what we are having, for more logistical reasons and to try a different way. I feel like it’s a win win if it’s a girl or a boy, so I don’t think I’d be disappointed. But I’m also keen not to tell anyone (I’m a terrible liar). Help! What would you do?
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It's really difficult when you find out not to use gender specific pronouns when talking about the baby. But also amazing knowing and being able to preplan😊