Girls someone talk me down 😩

So I’m 11+5… had a scan a week ago and all was fine with baby, wriggling and moving around! Last week for 2 days I’ve had a lot of pain in my lower tummy, feels sort of muscular but it freaked me out. I put it down to being on my feet to much at work as I walk around a lot. I called the dr and I’m seeing them tomorrow. My mind is just going sick with worry that something is wrong! I’ve had awful sickness which has pretty much gone over the weekend and I’m just worrying that the pain was actually something wrong with the baby. Has anyone had anything similar and can chill me out?!?? 🤣

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I would not worry a lot if you didn’t have bleeding and symptoms might ease close to the 12 week. You did the right thing and called the dr. Wish all will be well for you and your baby.

thank you so much for replying, my mind just gets carried away!!! Thank you xx

I understand I would be feeling the same way. Try doing something you like to distract your mind a bit. Have a nice and relaxing shower it will be good for you both!

Hi love, please try not to worry at 7 weeks I have bad back cramping which went down my leg into my groin for 12 hours straight, midwife and doctor told me without bleeding not to worry! I still haven’t had a scan because I got scared to have a reassurance scan😭

thank you. That’s a great idea x

awww bless you!! I hope you’re both okay and you manage a scan soon xx

thanks love. I’m going for my NHS one because I’m 12 weeks now so hoping them cramps at 7 weeks meant nothing ❤️ it’s such a worrying time xx

lower belly pain can also mean an untreated uti. i had the same thing at 8 and a half weeks but i also had spotting/bleeding, they said as long as you don’t have excessive heavy bleeding with the pain then everything’s okay with the baby!

thank you for replying! Yeah had that before it can be similar can’t it! I had a missed miscarriage with my 1st pregnancy so that’s why I still worry without bleeding 😢 xx

thank you for replying! It’s my second so you’d think I would be used to it now! Ha. Bless you glad it was all okay! I remember it with my first and it was after a day of walking for 12 hours! So I’m trying to tell myself I’ve just don’t too much! X

I had really bad cramps and it turns out it’s just my uterus stretching! It could be the same I thought something was wrong because abuse it hurt too much but it was actually fine!

they say you have spotting for numerous different reasons, i’ve had so many miscarriages so i worry about everything, i 100% get it! my doctors are amazing about all
of my questions, and if i have any concerns, i just call them, or call the on call ob, and let them know what’s going on. sometimes they have me
come in, other times it’s not too concerning, this is my second that have survived this long, the pains are normal even for your second, along with spotting, as long as it’s not followed with heavy bleeding, everything is okay!

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