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Struggling

I am so tired of having to put everyone above myself when he can do shit. My food gets cold because I have to feed her even though he is done eating. I get blamed for being "lazy" because I am a SAHM by him! He told me to quit my job because it was what was best for us. He won't change diapers or clean up a mess after her or himself. Won't give baths. Wants me to do shit for him even though I'm eating but that stuff has to be done NOW.

If I want to go out for an hour he won't watch her because I'm not making money. But if he goes out and gets drunk with friends and doesn't come back until 2 in the morning, it's okay. He makes me feel bad for eating the food we have so my mom gives me food I can eat for lunch during the week. We have the money for moonshine every weekend for him and a vape every week. A coffee every morning. But I can't anything? Not even small? I have to save change from the laundry just so I can get a little something for me.