Why do people make comments about pregnant people they don’t even know 😶 someone asked me today if I’m having twins.. and it’s made me so paranoid. Genuinely does my bump look big for my gestation?🫠
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No, you've got a perfect bump! I've had the same thing from 3 people now, "oh your sure you haven't got two in there" 🙄

Looks perfectly neat and lovely! 😍🥰 Screw people’s opinions on bump sizes though! I bet most people wouldn’t have the foggiest idea on what gestation a bump should be like and anyway, each to their own! Everybody is different and people should keep opinions to themselves x

I'm measuring big and baby boy is on the large side I get it all the time aswell you got twins in there. Had it today someone said you look like you have popped. I try to ignore it xx

I have had one “ArE yOu SuRe iTs NoT tWiNs” so far and it was from my evil stepmother 😂 I just shut that shit down really fast. It’s so fucking rude! Like how is saying “fucking hell you’re twice the size you should be” nice or funny?? People man 🥴

Someone's nan at the school playground told me I need a shopping trolley to put my bump in and I'm absolutely massive now, I must be struggling.... I just blanked look her like pardon?
My daughtert then came over upset so I crouched all the way down to the floor to speak to her and then stood up telling the lady I'm not struggling at all I don't know why she said that.... even tho it killed me to come straight back up without pushing off anything 😂 honestly do people not realise what they are saying? I've decided I'm going to start calling them back out, like I'm pregnant whats your excuse? See their faces 😂

But your bump its a lovely size, it's a baby bump. We are all different shapes and sizes without a baby and told to accept bodies of all sizes yet when there's a baby inside everyone and their dog has an opinion on your body

Perfectly normal bump! In fact, all bumps, no matter size or shape are perfectly normal. Bump comments are my biggest pet peeve!!

I keep getting mixed comments, I work in a pub so I get comments a lot, had the 'is there two in there?' Comment a couple times the 'wow, you're big' and then on the flip side a lot of people asking if everything is okay and 'you're tiny'. Seems very rare that I actually get a nice comment of 'you're carrying really well' 'you've got a nice bump' ect ect I just laugh and push it off, especially cause its at work. My manager the other day asked if I've bought plenty of tiny baby/newborn clothes because I'm not that big. I'm ignoring it all, all my Midwife appointments there has been no cause for concern and baby girl is growing normally ❤️xx
it was a man 🙄🙄