Y’all am I wrong???

girl you are NOT in the wrong!! it’s definitely a difficult situation with the other baby momma. but his past shouldn’t determine your future. you and your baby should go wherever y’all will thrive. i think giving him a timeframe is more than reasonable. does your baby have his last name? if it were me i’d tell him that if he’s not going to marry me, then my baby will have my last name🤷🏻‍♀️

If a man told me he would “compromise” to marry me, it would be overrr

I hyphenated 😂 if we end up there I’ll hyphenate mine so it matches or change both of ours but there was no way he was skating off with that one 😂 I told him straight up you want him to have your last name you should’ve done what needed to be done so it wouldn’t be an option. Liiife babe. & thank you!!! He’s complaining about compromise like what do I look like being stuck in va ultimately bc of your bm. You stuck. So I’m stuck. Bc of a woman who don’t even like me BYE 😂

these were always his feelings toward marriage he doesn’t really believe in it. (Trauma) but I said okay. I never worried about it because if we do.. we do. And if we don’t … I’m leaving you to find who will. Not that big of a deal to me BUT I can say it could’ve been avoided and I take my accountability for that

Honestly it sounds like yall want different things in life. You want marriage, he doesn’t, he says he’ll compromise but yet you still want it in your timeframe. As for the other kids I 100% get why he wouldn’t want to leave the area. I wouldn’t want to leave my kids either and that’s something that should have been talked about early on in the relationship. Before I had kids I would never date a man with kids because I didn’t want to feel like I was stuck due to the child.

I hear you 💜

I don’t think my timeframe is unreasonable because I would apply it for anyone. I’m not hitting 4 years without a proposal. You’re playing games. The thing is we DID discuss it. I told him I didn’t want to stay here. He said he didn’t want to and wasn’t. We’ve only ever talked about moving to a different state. Then all of a sudden it changed to… I might not be able to leave this state because of her. And to me? I get it. For him, but for me? For the child I birthed? Stuck because you have a bm that’s a child? She can move wherever she want whenever but he has to stay close….I think….. not. That’s not what we ever discussed and I’ve never switched up about it and I’m not doing it now. It’s not wouldn’t want to leave the area he wants to move just like I do but he talking about he CANT. Because of her. He wants me to compromise to stay here.

I mean he didn’t want to get married in the first place. So I think that’s a compromise. The moving I can understand since yall have talked about it at the same time I couldn’t imagine wanting to move too far from my child. Now if they live on the state line and yall would be moving the state over then it shouldn’t be a big deal to move.

Where u from sis ?

Georgia lol why?