Baby mama

Nah, she is being disrespectful. And he is allowing it. Rather he is aware of
it or not. I would say talk to him about it. (This is my grown up answer … report back here if he does not fix the issue for my “Oh I got time today” answer)

Why is your husbands ex gf in the picture to call you that anyway?

And that’s hella disrespectful.. he should never allow that

they’ve stayed in touch over the years apparently. Then I saw texts with him saying he missed her, and he wanted to drive 2 hours to meet up with her. But every time he’s mentioned her, it’s been negative

You need to cut that off period… this shouldn’t even be an issue of you asking if that was offensive of her to call you that (it is) but its an issue that he is in contact with her anyway.. they don’t have previous children this is mad disrespectful to you.

Unless they have kids together why is he going to meet up with her? Doesn't even need to speak to her! Disrespectful to you talking to her. I would speak to him and her. Is she in a relationship?

she was in a relationship, came to my husband for advice on the relationship (which I thought was weird and I didn’t like it, but he told me she was being physically abused so I didn’t want to say she couldn’t talk to him about it if she really needed someone) so I let that go. Then she comes a few months later and starts referring to me as baby mama and planning to meet up with my husband.