What would you say to your husband??

I asked my husband could he rub my feet tomorrow night? His response was "Is there a foot massager, I'll pay a 1k not to rub your feet ever again"

FYI: He hasn't rubbed my feet in over 17 months and while pregnant only rubbed my feet like 5-6 times with each pregnancy of my 3 pregnancies.

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Have you asked what his reasoning behind him not wanting to rub your feet? I’m not defending his side, but trying to put things in perspective of what may be the issue; my fiancé had an issue with rubbing my feet bc it would be for a bit, and it would cause his hands to cramp badly; or the fact he doesn’t really like feet, so it won’t the ideal situation for him; so there could be an underlying reason as to why he’s against it

He just doesn't want to. I don't ask for long and I rarely get it. Like he shouldn't have offered in the relationship to if he wasn't going to continue. I feel like he always has an excuse.. example "tomorrow" "I'm tired" I asked at reasonable times and only 10 minutes on each. I'm on my feet a lot with our 3 toddlers so it would be nice to get a foot rub

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Oh my God, oh my God I hope this is not true!!!! I’m kind of scared

I’ve been throwing up and taking a shit all night!!! I just hope that it’s not what I think it is

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