Nurseries

Can anyone recommend or tell me of any nurseries around the Ravenshead area please? We've got the Cherubs nursery on Longdale Lane, just looking at other options.

in our community

Missing him

My husband and I had been married for 2 years now. Honestly it’s been HELL. Nothing abusive. We got married one month after dating so you can imagine how that’s going lol. Right now ? We’ve been on bad terms since August !!! It’s march 😭😭😭 he trying but it’s not good enough but I miss him so much ( he’s always away , navy) but as soon as he gets back the fight continues bc it never freaking ended. We’ve barely spoken for 2 weeks and every time he leaves we have a big fight the night before 🙄🙄🙄 I miss him bad but hate him all the same time. I want to stop being sooooo angry with him but I feel like if I stop it will show that I’m not standing on my boundaries 😒😒 he’s been pretty much underway since August… and still isn’t done yet 🤦🏾‍♀️ won’t be until next month… Jesus. Any military spouses ? How in the fuck can you deal with anything when they aren’t even here 🙄🙄🙄

Would it bother you if your husband was hanging out with his sister at 4am in a closed bedroom upstairs while you’re in bed downstairs?

My sister in law is visiting/spending the night and we haven’t seen her in over a year because of living abroad. I have some past trauma from my own family so I was triggered when my husband saw that I was almost asleep at 4am when he was up playing video games and instead of coming to bed, went upstairs to chat with his sister. But I sound crazy even saying anything because it’s his sister, right? Is it inappropriate? Am I buggin? Would you feel uncomfortable?

..... divorce or marriage counseling?

2 kiddos, no DV, No cheating. Financially we are okay, slowly moving up in physical stability. However emotionally and physically we seem to hate each other. To be honest I cannot stand him anymore. I spent the whole time giving myself to my newborns, then to him. He can't even tell me I am pretty, or appreciated, or.... anything, besides argue and diminish me. I cannot stand him.

He hasn't been evil.

Do I do therapy (which will be its own fight)
Or just start paperwork?

Food idea

I have tried a lot of foods for my 1 yr old but he don’t like anything he just likes snacks anyone has any ideas for foods to make for my 1 yr old

Screen or paper — how do you handle story time?

My husband is working on a kids’ reading app and it’s got me thinking — do you prefer your kids read on a tablet or a physical book? Curious what other moms think and why!

Mil / gmil drama

So first time posting but any advice on in-laws who do nothing but tell you you’re not enough call you lazy a bad mom and a fat b!tçh bc I’ve had about all I can take and my fiance and I both have cussed these people out tried to cut ties and they just wiggle back in bc to my fiance he (squashed it and it’s over) but it never is and never changes any time his grandma comes over there is something wrong with the house or the kids or I’m not doing anything right and I’m tired of it . For example I just had a hysterectomy 2 weeks ago today and not supposed to do anything for at least 4-6 weeks and his family watched the kids for 4 days day befor during and after my surgery and then brought them to me on the 4th day after saying I was a lazy pos bc my boys had a cold and his grandma don’t like the dr we take them to it’s a whole story she went as far as saying they would die in their sleep from infection bc I don’t take them to the dr she wanted. Anyways she has posed on fb talking about me and my fiance being bad parents ect and when my mother seen it and finally had enough of her doing this kind of thing she comments on the post and that leads to her dishing out more hateful degrading comments toward me well this then spirals into me personally messaging her about it and her calling me leading to me going off the deep end on her and my fiance doing the same just for a few days to pass and her trying to act like it’s not a big deal and shouldn’t matter now and my fiance acting the same but then a few days ago his grandparents call and ask what we’re doing to which he told them he was working outside while I did what I could in the house and instantly was met with the comment “she’s probably in there sitting on her fat f-ing aşș” idk if we can cuss on here but my fiance then goes off on them for the 10000x now and yet agin here we are with them all acting like it’s fine. Idk what to do anymore im tired of being disrespected and the it brushed off as a casual conversation even if my fiance is defending me. Ever since i had the surgery I haven’t had any time to rest or heal and have been told 2x now my my surgeon and dr that if I keep up like this I can seriously harm myself leading to another surgery or worse and even with that lingering around my emotional state is horrible rn I’ve been struggling severely with depression and anxiety since the surgery and all this on top of that has me feeling like I’m drowning and not able to figure out rationally on what I should do about everything. Any thoughts or advice is welcome.