BLOCKED my baby daddy no more contact

What benefit does he get from his son? Is he seriously asking that?

Hey lovely, I’m kind of in the same situation. My baby dad has left and cause he can’t have/ control me he won’t see our daughter to control me that way. The only thing and advice I can give is let him go. You and your child deserve more than this and my way of thinking is it’s sad she doesn’t have a dad a round but I would rather that a than the disappointment she’ll have when he doesn’t show and the inconsistency. Knowing that her not knowing ratting than living a life of being let down is getting me through it

Agreed with Teonne.

My baby daddy left me 3 months into my pregnancy, he dosen't care he has a daughter even though he went out of his way to impregnate me knowing I didn't want children and I wasn't going to have an abortion. Girl they don't care, he's never seen his daughter she's 2 months now. He's never contacted me to ask even how she is or a picture of her. Block him on everything, find yourself some real great dick, file for child support. Weither or not he pays for it it will fuck him in the long run. Be petty and spiteful you deserve it for your peace of mind.

I’m in the sameee exact situation and 100% agree! Block him and file child support

Thank you! It just hurts for my daughter.

IKR his mad honestly this is his level of thinking. He took the other mother to caught so he didn’t have to pay child support.

I am part of a very similar situation, even down to the clare law and him asking me for a baby you need to block and keep it moving it gives you so much peace.

thank you. I’ve blocked him on everything here’s to a new chapter with my daughter.

Hello lovely ladies ! I’m in the same situation and I’m “baby mama “ two as well and he up and left and does not help etc etc ! Then has another child on the way . Two kids he already do not care for and the first one is adopted out , I’m still learning to let go and be happy with my daughter she’ll be two in August . GOD bless everyone and hope and pray we all find strength and love in these hard times

I’m sorry you’re going through this 🥺 while I didn’t have a baby with this person, how I moved on from an ex was realizing that every time I gave in, my healing process postponed. Once you stop giving into the bs & go no contact it will hurt and then it will get so much better with time, it is the only way to truly move on. If my child’s father disowned my child or there were any negative feeling towards my child I’d definitely treat him as if he weren’t the father. You can find better once the time is right 🤷🏽‍♀️

I also agree with Teonne. I had an inconsistent & narcissistic father and ended up developing abandonment depression at a young age. I still suffer from it as it plays a big role in my relationships

exactly that!! I ask myself what benefit does my daughter get from seeing her dad. None protect your mind and in turn you will protect your son’s childhood xx you got this mumma

I’m only a week in and I already feel so much better. I’m not ready to move on yet but I’ve re download hinge and everyone is showing me I still got it and o can when I’m ready find someone that will love us both the way o wish he did and he should of xx

thank you!

sorry you had to experience that, this is what I’m trying to avoid with my daughter.

you’re right. I can’t heal unless I go no contact otherwise it’s a constant rollercoaster. Thank you x

Ofcourse! And yes. I didn’t realize until 3 months passed and I was still in this desperate cycle of trying stay in contact with my ex and basically mentally needing him. It probably took me 2 weeks of no contact to stop caring and finally getting back to myself 😂