Why are people so mean??

It’s just projection. Some people really are miserable with their own lives

Completely agree with you

Bc sometimes people need to hear what they don’t want to hear honestly. Some of these posts are impossible to uplift bc the mother is just dead wrong and I understand if some people cannot accept that criticism but it has to be said. It’s the internet if we really let what people say get to us then maybe we need a break. 💜 I say everything I’ve said from a place of honesty, bc while I may be a bitch at least I’m not supporting ignorant and wrong behavior.

I agree with saying things people don’t want to hear and just because it’s the “internet” shouldn’t be a valid reason to belittle and put people down.
You can speak the hard truth with a tone of sympathy and care. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Voicing the fact that people here are mean, or in your words bitchy, doesn’t mean it’s getting to me. It means I see the toxicity

See you say toxic and others say tough love. It truly is how you want to see it. Reality is there are some truly toxic and bitter mothers in this group and they deserve to be called out. Some people have to face they are not the victim.

I need people to realize that tone can't be construed via written text.

Also, not all women are posting exactly all the details, all the context, etc.,which would be necessary to be able to give tough love advice because you can't just put someone in the wrong without knowing more than what someone is able to write about in a brief Peanut post imo. I also think it's possible to offer a differing perspective in a nonjudental, non rude way as well, for those occasions where women are asking if they are in the wrong or for advice or something.