Do your husbands have to do something to piss you off everyday too?
We were having a pretty good day then when were trying to put the baby to sleep he brings me the bottle and says oh this will knock him right out. And I was like oh how cuz he’s already tired and fussy? And he was like yeah but I just mixed the formula in with the milk instead of water.
Like why would you do that? There’s a reason that there’s specific instructions to follow. And he’s trying to tell me oh everything’s gonna be fine.
I just don’t know why’d he even think to do that in the first place.
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Trying to play devils advocate here … but men aren’t the brightest … what would be common sense to us is rocket science to them .. just sounds like he didn’t know though
I think I’m overreacting a little bit but I was still like dude…
I’m also get really moody every so often

Well I can understand your frustration taking care of a babies or children is hard work and the last thing you want is your partner coming in and adding to that work when he could have just easily have paid attention and done the one thing that was asked of him the right way… I’ve been there trust me, god knows my husband has pissed me off sooo much 🙄 but then again I’m a perfectionist and he is not so you know two different types of personalities but still I can understand and especially those hormones that are still present after baby makes you feel angrier when the slightest things go wrong and the sleep deprivation as well it’s like cmon you need to be helping me out buddy! Not making my life more stressful! 😤 so totally normal to be upset! Just communicate your feelings to him and let him know how that made you feel and trust me eventually everything does work itself out my husband knows better now to not do things to add to my plate but it does take some time

*of a baby not babies

I understand that , I’ve been there. When you feel better just try to communicate why it upset you … babies are hard work men are too lol