I went in for a scan yesterday which should be 8 weeks 1 days from LMP. but my last scan said I was a week or so behind. My Hcg were going up correctly, but my progesterone was 14 then went down to 11 two days later. I am now on progesterone as of April 10.
Yesterday I got my blood drawn and my HCG was 15,031. It was 4101 on April 8. It is not doubling at all. Progesterone went back to 13 only while on progesterone too.
Also week 4-5.5 I was really fatigued and my boobs hurt so bad. Now all symptoms are gone except minor boob pain. For the last week or so.
Yesterday the Fetal pole was there now. Saw a flicker on the fetal pole but the heartbeat was 78 he said. He said it was very slow. Could've even picked up on mine he noted. Also said the yolk sac looks too big which is another sign on an impeding miscarriage. I feel like the progesterone is just prolonging the inevitable.
He said it a slim chance this will survive. He was even holding my hands. Saying I am so sorry I can tell by your eyes you really wanted this. It was devastating honestly. Cried my eyes out when I got home. I am supposed to go to Miami on Monday for a week and have another scan the day after.
its weird cause this doctor gave me an abortion ten years ago. When I found out ..it had a healthy heartbeat and everything.. but I was measuring six weeks and some days but was supposed to be nine weeks that time. Maybe my babies develop slower?
my intuition has a good feeling. Maybe it’s karma from having a baby with someone I shouldn’t be.its been my thought this whole time since finding out that this won’t happen because karma ☹️ Any advice?
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I’m sorry you are going through this! Keep your mind open about the possibility you might have a miscarriage. If you doubt it, get a second opinion. If that’s the second time that happens to you, it is worth investigating why so you can treat it and not have it happen to you again

My friend had a miscarriage and all symptoms were still there even after a month and when I was pregnant with my babies, some times the symptoms just dissappeared for a while but baby was still okay.
The fact that there is a heart beat, the baby is okay so I would suggest maybe take it too slow, get some rest, think positive ( this is hard, but try to do things you like and talk to people who make you be at ease) eat well and see what happens.
Good luck hun❤️

It is not your fault! Look, when I got pregnant 8-9 years ago it was definitely with the wrong person and I did not take care of myself the right way. I ended up having a miscarriage right around the end of the first trimester.
I understand the guilt. I understand the feeling the karma is going to get you and this could be "why" it's happening. The truth of the matter is we do the best we can with the information we have at the moment, this baby's viability has nothing to do with the abortion. Sometimes pregnancies aren't viable genetically, which is obvious in the scan and what the doctors told you. It's not YOU. Miscarriage is so common and happens to.. gosh, most women I've met, even literal saints. I honestly feel it's more painful to get further along in the pregnancy (emotionally and physically) when a baby has genetic problems or isn't developing correctly, like my poor friend with her third pregnancy and second daughter who only got to live for a few hours after birth. Don't

punish yourself and think this is happening because it's the wrong man, you made a choice a decade ago, no. That has no role or reason for what's happening. I'm really sorry you're going through this and I'm sure your doctor has mentioned it has nothing to do with what happened years ago. Hugs ❤️❤️❤️
it’s the most right man ever. He just isn’t availble and he cheated. He’s the best man in the world. Hurts so much. All of this
what’s hard is no one knows. Except me. I didn’t want to tell anyone not to let them down if it ended up bad. Only told my dog and I prayed with her every night😢

I got pregnant shortly after my friend told us (my husband and I) that they were pregnat. we lived with them in between the sale of our condo and finding a new home so we pretty much formed a good solid bond and it was like a 2 in 1 couple
ps: we met through this app!
I asked her,'if my baby is a boy, would you give me your current baby's crib and if yours is a girl I would give you mine because of the colors?'
she said, Sandra; you can have the crib, I do not have a baby anymore!
these words, ran through my body, and then it shuttered. I pulled out a chair, and sat down. she then told us that while we were all asleep, husband too, she got a pain in the middle of the night and went to washroom and her baby came out, it was all blood. 'she said'
I was so hurt, felt so sad and I remember crying my heart out. I could not hold it. it made her cry. we all cried. the husbands brought us icecream and we watched a movie after. that was the start of her healing process as we started talking...
that’s beautiful that she had you. I cried reading that. It’s so devestating. I wish this didn’t exist. I wish everyone could just become a mom without stress. Women go through so much. We deserve our babies. 💔💔💔

I had a miscarriage last year and passed most of the pregnancy whilst on holiday. I found out the day before what was going to happen. I have to say that that it was a good distraction from what was going on.
that’s what this trip will be I guess. It sucks. I’m sorry u miscarriaged at your trip that is so scary. It was my fear. But I’m on progesterone so doctor said if that’s the destiny of this it’ll prolong it

yes , I agree. my husband always says life is unfair! I am strongly rooting for you that this is not what is going to happen and I hope there is that one person you can talk to. it will make everything a little easier
I went for another scan for a second opinion. She said she doesn’t know if it’ll be a miscarriage. I was measuring six weeks and a day so I’m two weeks behind. She saw the fetal pole. But no heart activity. I just feel like I’m too early and that’s just it for now. If by next week she said there’s no heartbeat then we have a huge issue. If u go off my ovulation I would be around 6 weeks right now

oh sweetheart, I am sending you a big fat hug 🤗
thank you🩷
Update got a second opinion and blood work. Progesterone was 13 then 15.6 two days later. Hcg was 15031 then 17974 two days later. Like a 20% increase. This week of waiting is what nightmares are made of

hooray.. thank you for the update❤️
everything is going to be okay and we will have a munchkin in a few months