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Hello. I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago. It has really affected me, but I am trying to keep on with life. I have an event coming up in June, but I have to craft everything I am selling and do some workshop editing, so now would be the time to get into those things. The issue is that my work room just reminds me of being pregnant. I'm struggling to go back in there. I can't give up on everything I have worked so hard for. How do I tackle this? Should I move the room around, should I just stay away? I don't know what to do, if anyone has any advice or suggestions I would be so grateful 🩷
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Hi firstly let me say I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I myself had a miscarriage in 2020 and still find it hard to cope sometimes even with my little one now. I would just say go at your own pace only do what feels right. I know you have an event coming up but you don't want to rush into clearing the room if you cannot manage it at the moment. Sending hugs and wishing you all the best x

@Georgina thank you so much. Very much appreciate you 🩷

@Georgina I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you recover fast and that you take in again one that you will hold. I suggest you take away everything that makes you uncomfortable from the room and continue your work.

Hi luv! I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how heart breaking that is and I'm sending love and prayers. I couldn't possibly tell you what to do, but something I might do is go in and allow yourself to feel that grief. Have a really good cleansing cry for as long as you need. And after that, if you still can't bear to be in there, take out what you need. This may take a few times. Rearranging the room could help too. I think that giving yourself a focus and a purpose can help you overcome those feelings (obviously not the pain of that loss but the room). It's just taking those first steps that are hard. Let yourself feel it, but take the steps. Action cures a lot, that much I do know. 💞

Hi dear So sorry for your loss . Sending lots of love and good wishes to you that everything now will be good only in your life ! I feel like you can rearrange the room , move few things here and there . Try giving it a bit changed look . Focus on your work , play some nice soothing songs , put up some nice lights and candles to lighten your mood . Everything will be fine ! Don’t worry , take care

Thank you so much, ladies. I am so incredibly grateful for the support and suggestions. I will be changing things in there today 🩷🙂

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