Going crazy with no contact

So my man (we’re married, 2 years) recently has started leaving the house more and more and not returning calls/ texts. I used to blow his phone up, call 100 times all of that but I just stopped cuz it’s not worth it and I don’t wanna look crazy (even though I really am lol) I’ve asked him to check in with me when he goes out, let me know when he’ll be home, etc and he agreed but he’s currently been out since Saturday with no check ins😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 TRYING SO HARD NOT TO GO CRAZY and the last time he texted me was like at 2am this morning and he just said “bae” . And that’s all. I left on him read and I’m really swallowing my pride to not text back anything sarcastic lmao. He keeps saying he’s at his moms house like a hour away or with friends , but I know they would “cover” for him lol. In fact a couple days ago when he was at his moms I messaged her and asked if he was there and she opened my message and didn’t say anything lol. We share 1 car and he was supposed to let me drive it today but of course, he hasn’t been home . 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 WTFFF SHOULD I DO FR
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Everything in me don’t wanna message his mom but CALL her and be like ??????? Like where tf is he ? But clearly she’ll lie for him or make up some BS excuse and then I feel like he’ll get mad and stay gone even longer when she tells him I called or texted her asking about him 😫😫😫😖😖😖😖🤬

I’ve even thought about putting a GPS in the car. 😫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

HELP ME GIRLIES IM SPIRALING FR

Even thought about using Uber to pull up to his friends house where he allegedly is at all the time lol help fr

personally 🧍🏾I do drive bys to catch liars and I make phone calls too….who cares about looking crazy. Y’all are married so he can’t be going MIA for days without a word leaving you without a car…what if you have an emergency.

Yeah sadly this sounds way too familiar with mine... I ended up creating a fake dating site called chispa cuss it goes by location so is it it to 5 miles and caught him on it... Look, I'm going to be brutally honest with you.Some other woman has his attention You both are married.Yes , it may sound insane , but you need to put a g p s on him I'm telling you this is not normal behavior this is cheating behavior and I from what i'm reading definitely suspect infidelity

That's YOUR husband. Get all in his mf business. Check that phone. Somebody has his attention, if the conversation is getting short with you, it's because it's getting longer with somebody else. Disappearing for days????With children? Unacceptable. My boyfriend would've got a pot to the head. I don't play that idc how busy you are you're gonna make time for your family. I hope you have his password. Check his email, deleted apps, recently deleted messages, link history, download his instagram history(if he has one) seek and you will find. Say a prayer and ask God to reveal the truth. I PROMISE you, he'll reveal it so fast so if you really don't wanna know what he's hiding, don't ask. Men🙄 instead of them telling you what's going on they rather be sneaky

YOOOOOO

Yall tell me why his MOMMA IS COVERING FOR HIM LIKE I THOUGHT

I still have his messenger login connected to mine. He tends to delete their whole chats but the last messsge from her was “she messsged me saying you was walking to my house and I went along with it and figured you’d tell me later lol”

YALL

He gunna make me pop up at his mommas house and cause I scene im so fr he hasn’t been home in 2 DAYS

@Kayla<3 girl his momma covering for him I’m about to fr get an Uber and pull all the way up he’s playing w me fr

WTFFFF IM FR IM ABOUT TO SPAZZ

And I just know he’s gunna come randomly and not expect me to say anything or ask any questions. YEAH IGHT

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ouu I’m the wrong person to ask this 🥴😂 but I would pull up ! Uber have a friend take you wtv the case is, I definitely would ! Because like they said it’s definitely cheating behavior ! I would check everything and put a gps on the car but do everything silently and move smart not with your heart !

Omg you gotta knock him out with a pot wtffff. Her too. I hate mother that enables their sons. Disgusting

Definitivamente getting a gps on the car ASAP

Pulling up tomorrow I’m so fr

Imma smack tf outta him , the bitch he’s with AND the momma

I'm lying don't be like me and end up in jail. Idk what to tell you when I get played I start swinging(which is wrong yeah ik) but I just don't like being played with. And I've never been married, honey this is your husband. Gotta be devastating I think you gotta do sum to him

follow him in an uber

these like live updates is crazy but I’m here for it. Whew girl child If I was you he’d be 6 feet under faster then you could say wtf idc idc idc please PLEASE post an update and let us know if you caught him. You deserve sm better then how he’s treating you

Yesss^ you deserve better, and there is better out there.

Girl the way my blood pressure is all the way through the roof is insane I could jump off at 30 foot building soooo fr

Should I take it there ? Or act nonchalant 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

EVERYTHING IN ME SAYING PULL UP

but then another voice is like nah don’t pull up let him make a fool out of himself and when he comes home, take the car keys and leave LMAO

Me personally I would wanna make a fool outta him cuz if he think he can play wit u make sure he know who the real fool is however doing it peacefully is prob the more mature way to go. But atp I wouldn’t even care bout bein mature

Act like it don’t bother you Ik it’s wayyy easier said then done ! but once you show him it gets you out of character he’s going to know how to trigger you and your showing him your hand ! if he don’t say anything by tomorrow I would pull up do what u gotta do and don’t tell him too much, try not to show emotions that it upset you like don’t cry to him

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I'm a devious person I was gone say put oil on the floor and whoop his ass like a dog lmao but don't do that either. Hmmmm girl idk I be in crashout mode you might have to pray and ask for guidance because no matter how you react, he's still gonna do what he wants

😂😂😂😵‍💫

Update yall he still playing saying he’s at his moms 😂😂😂😂 im waking up at 5AM and imma be otw to his momma house already made my mind up 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

@Sunset “knock him out with a pot” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Harmony “6 feet under” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dang I’m so sorry you’re going through that and they are so crappy to do you like that. As much at you want to spaz and cause a scene, play it cool. Act like you don’t suspect anything. Try and get evidence first so they can’t say you’re just acting crazy and have no proof. Get the gps on the car and try and get as much evidence as you can. That’s definitely cheating behavior and unacceptable! Play it calm and smart as much as you don’t want to and feel you have to express yourself the way any sane women would in this situation. If you go crazy you might find yourself in a worse situation so just sit and think and try and calm yourself as much as you can even tho it may seem impossible. You got this, stay strong and handle business the classy way

He doesn’t deserve you acting a fool of yourself bc you deserve better. It honestly won’t make you feel better if you act a fool of yourself imo, it’ll just give him and everyone else a reason to laugh at you and make fun of you while also calling you and thinking you’re crazy. If you want to leave then leave peacefully and just leave it at that. He will see he messed up and know you knew you didn’t deserve to be treated like that

I say get him drunk and beat his ass 🤷🏻‍♀️

Put Nair in his shampoo. Fuck him fr girl fr. I’ve been there. Two years of blowing him up . Crying begging. I got tf up and will be getting my get back soon idc

Watch some Sprinkle Sprinkle videos

UPDATE legit when I was taking a shower he came home LMFAOOOOOOO

Definitely doing the gps thing. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😂

Getting him to take me on a shopping spree all on him LMFAO

IKTR PERIOD

Make his pockets hurt😛

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