Did I say something wrong?? 2nd pic in the comments
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It’s “Hoeseph” for me 😩😂
@Trinity✨ he says he had paperwork showing why he can't see him because he's trying to make himself better. He is now sober! I said he can't find 1 hr a week to come and see him but can go to the movies and to eat with his gf ! Can't even FaceTime like I can't.
Lmfaooo he’s crazy !!! 🤡. Trying to make a problem out of nothing, I’ve dealt with that before smh
It's because through text people read things more hostile than it is. Y'all probably don't get along so he just read that as "Yeah, yeah, you don't need to tell me, I know what I'm doing..." We're all guilty of doing that at least once. You're not crazy bc you ain't say shit wrong, but he's not either cause you know... But I'm here cackling bc I thought his name was Hoeseph fr 😅
You both sound young and hostile. For your child's sake, you two should probably go to counseling to establish some better communication and basic courtesy. You two don't have to like each other. But based on that tiny glimpse, your child deserves a more stable and respectful parental situation. As to the first pic. Seems sending a "hi daddy" video and reassuring him that the meds aren't being used in excess might have gone a long way. The immediate assumption that he was calling you out instead of expressing normal concern for his child seems more like giving chase. If nothing else, assuming he is as terrible as you might believe, at least he would have had to work for the dispute. You let him assist in bringing your child into the world. Your child deserves both of you. You obviously can make him make the right decisions or be present. You can ensure he has the opportunity.
@Golda i get what your saying. And I agree. I told him we don't have to like eachother but for our son or in front of him at least yes we do. If you can't respect me then you don't need to come around because all he does is be drama
@Keisha haha its Joseph but Hoeseph really is what it should be
you both sound like children arguing get it together for your son’s sake he sounded concerned for his son and i did sense a tone look he can do whatever he wants to do .. i know it’s not right that he probably cries to see his son but don’t make the effort but he can do whatever he wants with his gf but stop arguing with him, y’all are co parents .. CO as in COoperate together for y’all’s son arguing over petty stuff isn’t necessary or blaming each other or him for what he’s not doing he might be an asshole or hoe but he’s your baby’s dad and when you get a long with him and be the bigger person it will make your life easier
The guilt trip personality is reeeeaaal
@Golda i send him pics and videos of him daily when I don't feel like I should even do that but I do because its his dad. But im not going to force him to make time for him
@Emily i act like an adult and don't argue with him alot of the times but he takes me back to the idgaf attitude and I just can't help it sometimes. Don't sit here and cry that yiu miss him yet can't take 10 15 min to stop and see him or FaceTime the kid. But like I said I shouldn't have to be the one to be reaching out to him and sending him things if I don't want to but I do. But for what to get talked to like this all the time? Like take my ass to court . Just talking about it irritates me and I hate that it does
@xtina I completely agree, you can't force him. You can only provide the opportunities. Your frustration is absolutely normal. Maybe you just need a parenting plan if you don't have one yet.
@Golda I've tried hebwill be cool for like a day or 2 then starts up again. Every other day its I miss u and him which i dont respond to and the next is we will never be good blah blah im like what?
@xtina was he an alcoholic or on drugs and now he is working on sobriety? Is that what you mean by he has a letter and is now sober?
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@Keisha yes
He’s extremely immature. Emotionally and mentally.
@xtina don’t let him get to you, that’s what they want. If he sees that he can’t get a rise out of you he’ll stop. you have to beat him at his own game and make your life easier, keep your friends close and your enemies closer
@xtina if he is going through sobriety steps now, he's being honest about staying away. My brother went through that and had to stay away from everyone for a while due to some sort of "triggers". One day the two of you will learn to put it all to the side for the baby. Try not to take offense to what he says, just say thanks for the reminder and move on. Sometimes it all you can do.
@Keisha im not saying he's lying. Im saying you have all this time to do other things but you can't take 1 minute to at least FaceTime the kid! It just makes no sense to me.
And this is his response I wake up to after me telling him he can't even take 10 min to FaceTime or stop by!
Good morning I am on my way to court to fix my warrant can u please call me when Julian gets up so I can see him on FaceTime please 🙏
Telling u every other day I deel with a different person. And I gotta just suck it up and let it be
Girl, no he sounds absolutely crazy and you didn’t even give him an attitude. He sounds like a psycho. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this….