Why do men love anal 🤦🏻‍♀️

Lube?

Defo!

Have him put his thumb in first to help stretch/relax it and yes lube for sure lol

Mannnnn I feel you. There is no reason for it. I hate my husband asking me about it. I am not interested at all!

We’ve tried the lube, the thumbs/fingers, and most recently some anal plugs but it’s still no fun 😫

Lots of lube and as hard as it is relax the more you tense the more it hurts. The first few tries are painful but now it's ok and I surprisingly love it

I just don’t understand the fascination. Why put your self through pain?? It takes so many times to try it before it feels good. I just don’t have that kind of urge lol.

If you’re not finding it fun you shouldn’t be doing it in my opinion you should enjoy sex not just consent for his sake that’s not consent 🤷‍♀️

I am definitely consenting and making an informed decision 😂 but thank you for your concern

Okay as long as you want to just the way I was taking it with you saying it wasn’t fun eg I was worried you were just doing it for his sake in that case lots of lube and make sure you are fully relaxed

you could always get a small dildo for him to use to work at it while he fucks you doggy and then transition into him, i have found that’s what works best for me, i can send you a link if you want haha

would be more substantial then a thumb, and it would actually keep you opened even if you did clench making it easier to relax over time

Try working it in to your Masturbation sessions before going for it with a guy. You'll need premium decentralizing silicone lube (for the man part), start with small toys and work your way up. I like double penetration toys that has something to stimulate the clit.

Husband never asked but my BD use to all the time, come to find out he was BI.

My tip is for your husband to find himself a nice boyfriend

Anal beads with lube

Make sure he’s made you orgasm first, you have to be SUPER relaxed! If anything down there is tense it’s not gonna happen. I’d say try with his finger, then fingers, doing some breathing exercises so you can really focus and feel yourself relax your buthole 🤣 not very sexy but then you’ll know how to relax when trying it x

So it took me a while to be okay with anal and I watch a video about if you breathe through it going in , it helps. I also use a vibrator for the clit while he’s doing and girl it’s a better orgasm for me. It works even better if he can “get you in the mood” first too. It’s because we are so nervous and excited about it that we tense up. That’s my problem, but once we get past that part, it’s fun and we are both enjoying ourselves. But my husband was the first time I ever did it lol. I didn’t trust anyone else to do with. Just got to be creative and see what works best for both of yall. We use coconut oil and it helps 😊 but a penis size if different in every man so that could also be the reason it doesn’t go in as smooth too!

Thanks for all the advice!

But why are there comments about being gay/bi 😭😂 he’s as straight as an arrow, trust me I’ve seen his pornhub history lool
why can’t a straight man enjoy anal? Majority of guys I’ve known enjoy this. I think it’s the fact that he’s never done it and wants to try it, which I get.

I really enjoy when he pulls my hair to the point it hurts during doggy and same with spanking. The pain turns me on. Does that make me a 🚩 too?? 😂

All the "he must be gay" is absolutely ridiculous.

What helps me is lube and when he talks to me while putting it in slowly it’s the only way for but he doesn’t ask often so we be sure to prepare

Coconut oil and thc lube works best for me

Numbing lube has helped me in the beginning. Trust me, you’ll love it!!

Mine did same thing till I gave in and yes it's painful/uncomfortable but if u just endure after a couple times often enough it doesn't anymore unless u wait to long between hahaha

My husband actually doesn’t care for anal lol thank God. It doesn’t look very enjoyable to me, but that’s jmo.

You have to try to relax & not tense up that's why it's not going any further. Unless take a shot or two lol

What’s with coconut oil? Is it good? As in from the supermarket? Sorry if this is a silly question! x

Lube. Lots of it 😂

There’s numbing gel you can use, I think you put it on and wipe it off after a few minutes. Lots of lube is crucial! Depending on your partners anatomy, you may be pretty sore afterwards haha