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I don't wanna fight anymore

So my bd and I have been at war from the beginning. We were really close at one point and during that period of time we spoke on having a kid. Unexpectedly I got pregnant. He then told me he wasn't ready for a kid but I didn't want to get an abortion as I've had one before and regretted it. I explained this and told him I wanted to keep my kid and he said okay. It came to a point where we started to disagree on everything and then it was a conversation about if he was gonna be there for my kid and that if it came down to it I'll have to take care of my kid alone. I went through pregnancy alone I seen my bd about 6 times my entire pregnancy. Fast forward I had the baby. He then asked for a DNA bc she didn't look like him. I spit her out. I agreed on that bc I have nothing to hide. He never got the test done. He also didn't sign her birth certificate. Fast forward we agreed to coparent but he does the bare minimum, we have had multiple arguments about it and it came down to him saying he can't legally take care of my kid bc of his situation. He is a registered sex offender. He doesn't have a case for small children, he just had another child with a minor ( he was 20 she was 17) He said that his PO explained to him that he is jeopardizing his freedom having contact with me and my kid due to not having a DNA Test. In the midst of this we got into a big blow out where he told me to stop asking him for shit when it comes to our kid bc I said what he was doing wasn't good enough I need more help. Now we are at a point where I don't expect shit from him. He has given me every reason / excuse to why he can't help me with my kid. He even said that I was filthy and not a good mom bc I received food stamps and wic. So we have no relationship at all. I went to visit home as I'm from another state than where I live and I'm considering moving back, now all of a sudden he wants partial custody and to sign the birth certificate with out getting the DNA test he needed so bad to be there for my kid. I told him I don't want him to do that, that he has to be a actually father before he does that. Atp I'm done fighting this battle and rather not deal w him at all. I don't want him in my childs life anymore