Should I feel bad?
My dad is very controlling and coddling to the point where I would say it’s toxic and gotten in the way of me being confident enough to make decisions for myself.. well I’m saying this because as a 24 year old woman he still tries to control my life he’s always insisting to come over and do things for me and today I had enough I told him I don’t need him fit every single little thing and that I can figure it out myself I think he has a fear of failing and he doesn’t understand that I need to fail sometimes in order to grow
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Could look at it from another point of view too. He could be an arse or on the other hand he doesn’t want to stop being useful so he keeps doing stuff for you. The more you grow up the less you need or want your parents help some struggle letting go. But if your seeing it in a toxic way set boundaries wether they like it or not x
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