My husband and I have great sex. I 100% enjoy our sex life. But I have never squirted, and my husband thinks it’s because I don’t enjoy our time together, which isn’t true. He is very attentive sexually, goes down on me, fingers me, uses a vibrator on me. Does other things I like, like calling me names, or slapping me around. But I never squirt, and he thinks this means I don’t orgasm. Is anyone else in this boat? Any suggestions?
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i’ve never squirted in my life and i’ve had/been given many amazing orgasms i think it’s just that not all women have the ability to squirt lol but that doesn’t mean your enjoyment is any less

Hi ,not every woman squirt and you definitely can have an orgasm without squirting, I have great sex with my partner too and never squirted either but I do have multiple orgasms. I think every woman is different some are able to and some don't xx

Find some research into how the female orgasm works and show him. Not every woman can squirt and even if they can doesn't mean they have to in order to achieve orgasm.

I think he needs to be kindly educated about the female body. Not everyone squirts, and it most certainly doesn't mean they aren't reaching climax. If it's something you are interested in pursuing, then I would look up tips on how to together and be vocal about what you do or don't like in the moment.

just searched on google and says studies found that only 10-54% of women squirt 😂

Not all women squirt and you have to do it a certain way to squirt also. I can do it but doesn’t mean it happens every time, some women do but some women don’t literally everyone is different
Also you can squirt without having an orgasm!

I think your husband has been watching too much porn.

I mean why would you want to… seems messy 😂 I mean it’s just a rapid explosion of urine and other things from your bladder, smelly and messy! But that’s just me 🤷🏼♀️😅

It’s actually genetic. Though you can “fake it” by making sure you have a semi full bladder and having him push gently on your lower abdomen (think where your bladder is) when you reach climax.

Hi there. Woman who didn’t used to squirt then learned how to do it here. For everyone saying not all women can squirt yes they can. Every woman’s body does it, it’s everything to do with having your body relaxed as well as the man/woman finding your g spot.
Honestly it sounds like your husband wants you to squirt more so for him then you, I’d do research on both ends and just practice at it (if it’s something you want to actually do) if you’re not into it then tell him that. 🤷🏻♀️

I peed while having sex with my bf the other day and he thought I squirted…nvr seen him so happy so there’s that. We all can’t squirt it’s normal🤓❤️

Not all women do

I say use something like a rose something that has good suction...

Squirting is messy me and my husband hate the clean up after and I can tell you that not every time that you squirt means orgasms squirting for me is more of like a switch sometimes I only do it sometimes because my husband loves it but hates the clean up 😒 and if your having a wonderful sex life sit down with him express everything and do the research together so he will understand

OMG!!! Men and their 🌽 squirting was never a thing until 🌽 made it a fetish! For god sake, can he be hard for a whole work day like the hard working men of the adult industry do?? Imagine telling him this: “What, you don’t love me? you can’t even stay hard for me more than 1 hr?!”

He believes in the performance of adult entertainment actors (tbh half the time looks they just shove something up there to squirt out) over your experience of intimacy because it’s not performative?! …come on… Does he think youre a 🌽 Star?

I came really close once. I didn't know what was happening so I stopped everything. The guy curved up though so while I'm on top he's hitting the right spot. I wish I knew then what I know now. Lol

100% he's watching or watched too much porn, and that's left him with the false perception of what to expect.

Only like 15-20% of women can squirt. It’s not a choice and isn’t a factor if you get off or not. Honestly the first time I did it I was SOOO embarrassed. Men have a skewed vision of what to expect, but don’t let that discourage you 🥰

Not everyone squirts. Just pour a bucket of pee on him and say there I squirted.