As a side chick you know your role and you know your position. You know the man belongs to someone else so you just get to have fun with it. Still get to see other people with no pressure no fights or arguments.
Seems like being the main comes with being lied to DAILY, cheated on and constant gaslighting. You’re fighting for your life and maintaining your mental health. While he’s enjoying his life to the fullest.
How can one person be monogamous and the other polyamorous. So it makes more sense to be a side chick no?
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Not at all, you’re no better than him if you’re seeing someone you know is in a relationship with someone else. If you’re with the right person there won’t be a side chick. You’ve said yourself “the man belongs to someone else” so why take what isn’t yours? Nothing to be proud of at all being a bit on the side 😌
Beth I’ve been in a relationship where the man keeps cheating on me so It was kind of a sarcastic post to say my life would be much easier if I was the side chick but I don’t condone that behaviour at all.

Thats really sad and I hope you’re in the process of leaving him because you don’t deserve that from either of them

What have I just read 😂
yes I am in the process but he’s making life hell