Baby classes/groups 👣

Am I the only one who hasn't taken their LO to any classes or groups yet? I keep seeing lots who've taken them from teeny and I still haven't. I've done a lot else with her, we go for walks near enough every day, nature strolls, out for food (me not her 😂), shopping, we've gone on a 1st family UK break already too for 5 days. I try to do lots with her, I just haven't taken her to the groups. She's 16 weeks, and is due her final jabs next Monday. That's a big reason why I will say. I'm very protective but that's just because I waited so long for her 🥹 am I wrong for not doing them yet? I'm not the most sociable person, I'd rather me and her, family, use what energy I currently have into doing things just us. I suffer with major fatigue from having a chronic condition so it's difficult to do much at the best of times, I'm using all my energy on my LO. She's my world. I think I'll do them eventually, just not yet. I'm loving our bond and contentness together. I just don't want to feel this outside pressure. I'm not on any social media whatsoever, it's literally just our little family and I love it 🥰

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Help

Hi mamas! Has anyone dealt with their baby’s hair clumping at the back of their head? I tried baby oil to loosen it but no luck so far. Any advice?

Struggling

My baby’s 5 weeks old and I am really struggling. I knew it would be hard but it’s so much harder in reality. She won’t be put down without waking up after 5 minutes. Won’t be put down at night either. I can’t do anything without doing it one handed holding her. Every night she spends hours being stressed and crying and really difficult to console, fighting sleep and nothing I do seems to help her for more than 30 seconds. I’m just putting this out there wondering if others are going through the same. It’s a lot.

FTM First night home advice

Hello! FTM here and have just come home with baby. I am so tired as obviously didn’t sleep a wink in hospital. But I am SO paranoid my baby will stop breathing so I just cannot sleep I have to be able to hear her. Someone tell me I’m not going mad and it will get easier!!??

Just need to vent

I think my husband and I are very much diving off a cliff toward divorce.

We’re both exhausted and that’s not helping.

Our daughter is 19 months old and for the last 5 weeks she’s refusing to sleep longer than a few hours in her cot. She wakes up sometimes after 2 hours, sometimes after 5 hours, it’s never consistent, and she then refuses to go back down in her cot. She has to be asleep on someone. It started with her having to sleep on me and hated her dad, then it moved to sleeping on either one of us, and it’s stayed that way ever since.

We’re both not only getting little sleep but we’ve been passing tonsillitis back and for to each other for months now even without being near each other.

We don’t kiss anymore or hold hands, we don’t say I love you very much or show that we do, we don’t do anything intimate… we just co exist in the same house.

I don’t know if it’s because of the constant illnesses or this sleep issue we’re having, but I don’t think we’re going to last much longer. We’re constantly snapping at each other and swearing at each other.

We don’t have time to ourselves because we don’t have a village or anyone available to babysit for us so we can’t get back on track that way.

I just feel like we had a child and everything went wrong.

We’ve only been married 2 and a half years and it’s already falling apart. I’m so disappointed but I’m also so fed up of being spoken to like absolute shit on a daily basis.

I don’t know what I want from this post. I just needed to vent and get it out because I have no friends and nobody to talk to about this stuff.

Wake Windows

Out of interest, how long are your LO's wake windows at 5 months? 🙂

AITA

My youngest is 19 months and still breastfeeds. I am the one who usually puts him down for naps. Today he went down and woke up like 44 mins later I tried to get him back down and he woke back up again. My partner is upset that he didn't go back to sleep. Im not trying hard enough, I'm letting the baby have power etc stupid s****. It's pissing me off bcus why are you so mad? I understand we have things we eed to do in the house today but still.