My LO is 11 months old and he attends nursery 2 days a week, yesterday I picked him up and he had been bitten for a second time and this time on his face!! I know these things happen but they said someone was right there it was just so quick but I just don’t believe it, how can you be watching a baby and let this happen! I really don’t know what to do 🥺
I personally know all of the people who look after him as I worked for the same nursery a few years ago, honestly I’m so heartbroken, Teddy is such a good boy, he never hurts anyone or snatches he just doesn’t deserve it ☹️
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Aww no poor baby!! You must be furious. I’m wondering if it’s the same baby doing it if so they need to be monitored especially around your baby. You’d think they would have been keeping an extra eye if it’s not the first time

well they told me it was a different child this time, but I just feel like they’re not telling me the truth! I work in a nursery so I know it’s hard but honestly twice now, I’m thinking how many more times will I get a call saying he’s been bitten again I can’t take it 😫😫

Aww this makes me so sad for him and you

honestly it breaks my heart! He loves nursery and I’m scared this is gonna put him off going because he’s always getting hurt 😞

Aww, hopefully it doesn't as he probably doesn't see the situation in the same way that we do as adults. Have you spoken with the nursery staff about it though?

ah thank you for that, seeing in that perspective makes me feel so much better actually 🥰 I did last time but they just sent me some biting policy they had which was a load of rubbish and very unhelpful!

If you're not happy make a formal complaint and ask to see the incident file. Do they have CCTV?

Be careful. This happened to a baby I know and it become infected and he’s now on antibiotics. Human bites are super dangerous x

thank you, luckily it hasn’t broken the skin but it’s so scary!!

hey, sorry to hear about what happened.. Hope it won't happen again. Just wondering what's that policy you're referring to? What's the nursery official rule about things like that?

it’s not much a policy just says about how they tell the biting child no and take them away from the situation and explain to them that biting hurts. Which doesn’t really work if it’s another baby who’s done it anyway?! I understand it’s a frustration thing but my baby has never bitten anyone!!

do they inform the parents of the biting child, too? I think this would be helpful, too.

yeah they do!