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Hi! I got my tubes removed now I regret it does anyone else feel this way? :(
I had pre eclampsia twice - two preemies one 28 weeks this recent one 32. But now I feel like I made the worst choice and I want one more.

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You could potentially do it again via IVF. I don’t have any tubes for other reasons and we did IVF to conceive and had success.

I was looking into IVF - because I truly regret it now :(

You only need eggs, sperm, and a uterus to do IVF. As long as you’ve got those things it’s a possibility. Our insurance wouldn’t cover it, so we paid 25k out of pocket and got 5 healthy embryos saved for future use. But, a lot of people have programs through their work that cover it as well. I know when I worked at Home Depot they had a program you could use. It’s worth researching if it’s something you truly want. It doesn’t have to be the end.

I had a healthy first pregnancy and second and still got a tubal. However now my second son is 3 months old and we are doing doctors visit after doctors visit for some unknown health issues. I hated pregnancy and everything it comes with and I didn’t think I wanted anymore kids. Now my mind races to all the negative and now I keep telling myself I cannot have anymore babies and it breaks my heart BUT I’m thankful to never have to buy a pregnancy test again. I’m regretful but I’m not. It’s a very back and forth feeling.

I will thank you for the hope 💖

I had my tubes removed because they were filled with fluid due to a botched surgery when I was 21 (I had two large cysts and endometriosis). I went through IVF and have a 5 month old now! You can still have a baby, but it is more steps and can’t happen on accident ❤️

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