Coparent…

No no no. ! He can come to yall! A whole week absolutely not

I’m telling him that’ll be best for her. And he’s making it seem like I’m keeping her away from him🤦🏾‍♀️ even told me going through the court I was going to much

he’s insane !! Nah not for no week mama I’m sorry it’s a huge no for me!!! He asking for something TOO heavy too fast too soon!! Nah even if yall met half way but I still say he come to yall and u can meet him in YOUR state let them spend some time but NO overnights love…. He can come spend DAYS and at night time she still come home in home where SHE IS most comfortable and familiar with!! U can’t just allow a 2 yr old GIRL go somewhere she’s never been no ma’am !! 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 I pray it all works out mama !!

thank you

Specially if he is not in the birth certificate you have a lot more power, let him take you to court prove paternity and all that. I know it is good for her to have a dad but if he hasn’t been around he hasn’t earned the right to take her with him yet. He has to put in the work

He also feels like since I’ve told him no, he doesn’t have to help out with her financially anymore.

Do NOT put him on birth cert and he'll np to a week. She would be screaming for you.
Tell him to come to you and if money an issue you will pay for flight.
No over nights till more consistent time spent with her .
All else fails RUN and change identity

Money control too .
Was this a abusive relationship

wasn’t until the last 2 month of us being together . Once we got our own place he would verbal abuse me and then it turned into physical so I left. He stopped working and still wanted me to work, cook and clean

Ok can you get onto MEETOO on instagram there website is linked . A law just passed in the states called Kaydens law so look into that and see what you meed to do . He is an abusive partner and abuse doesn't end when you leave unfortunately, most comes with control when you leave

Metoofamilycourt can advise you and help