Partner liked ex picture...
What would you do?
I noticed on FB messages that I had two notifications but didn't know what they were. Ended up checking my message requests and I'd had one from his ex ages ago (knew it was in there) when she was trying to sort money from their relationship ending (a lot, so it took a while to sort).
Stupidly, I clicked on her profile.
It's pretty private, so I can't see everything, but I could see the last update was her updating her profile picture in Dec 2022, and he had liked it.
At that point, he knew I was pregnant.
That hurts.
What would you do?
It's so long ago, but it's obviously fresh for me, and idk if he has done anything since...
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They finally concluded the money situation between them in Oct 2023 so as far as I am aware, they no longer communicate...but he does still have her on Facebook.
He mentioned the other day that she does body building stuff now, so he obviously still sees her stuff...idk...
I wouldn’t be okay with them being friends. He shouldn’t be talking about her either that’s weird .
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Bring it up with him, a real man will just delete them if it offends you x
I would address it with him for sure. If he gets too defensive then 🚩 he should understand that is disrespectful towards you. I put it to him how would he feel if you had done that
I don’t see a problem with that- they come home to you? If however your partner lied about being able to see the ex stuff exact then an issue.
can confirm this is correct 😊
Personally I don't mind if partner looks at/is friends with his exs provided it's social media safe content (not private photos they had). It's likely he's not thought of it like we tend to do. I know I'm friends with one of my exs and I'll like his IG photos, but I know my feelings don't extend beyond that. I can only assume it's the same for him/them.
Now if he was writing thirsty comments/DMs or hiding any of that from me then yeah 🚩
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Nothing. Gosh, it’s a just a profile picture. It would be weird if they got apart in bloody mess. If they just peacefully ended the relationship it mean just nothing
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