FIL missing grandchild’s baptism

I need some advice. My FIL has yet to see my child and he’s 11 months old. No clue as to why
We had the baptism for our child a few weeks back and he never came and said he didn’t want to say why. My MIL said she didn’t know why and didn’t want to push the matter so there wasn’t arguments between them. He did come to our other child’s baptism so I don’t understand what’s going on.
Do I leave this situation alone, do I cancel them out, do I say something?
Please help

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If he doesn’t want any part of your child’s life there’s nothing you can do. Don’t even stress trying to find out why it doesn’t matter if he wants to lose out thats on him. Sounds like his wife is showing up and not even siding with him so its probably some stupid shit anyways trust me its better that he’s not there at all instead of being forced to be and making the child feel unloved

we found out why he doesn’t want to come he says we never come over anymore and haven’t seen him in a year. We also made that choice because he missed his grandsons birthday and a lot of other events too! So I refuse to go to the house. I say my kids are small and people need to understand that’s it’s not my responsibility to constantly be bringing them around when other don’t make an effort

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