Kids dad
Since April her ‘dad’ has been supposed to have FaceTime her didn’t do it on the day in April and ever since it’s been me asking and him making excuses to why he can’t
So said to him yesterday I’m only asking once more for you to ring her tomorrow and he’s response was if I can I will but it’s been a hectic week, fine it might have been but I e been asking since April for you to try and start and relationship with your daughter and it just doesn’t seem like you give two flying monkeys about it, his response was can’t help always working can’t cancel appointments…sure darling sure you don’t have a spare five minutes to just ring her and say hey I’m your dad blah blah blah
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Ugh 💔 unfortunately you can't make someone want a relationship with your baby.. it obviously shows he's not interested and that's so sad for your baby. But you're better off not begging.. she'll see in time everyone's true colors and she'll make the decision on her own on who to trust/prioritize and not to.. I know how this feels first hand and I'm so happy to say I never needed that scumbag of a sperm donor in my life & that my mother never begged him to come around
I know I just feel bad that she sees everyone with their dads and I feel guilty that he just left to start a new life but like you say can’t make a him want a relationship
Wow. I thought I was reading my own thoughts😊. I realized ultimatums don’t phase them as they think you’re a joke. All bark, no bite. The last thing I said to hm was “When I get the memo, I get it”. It’s been 7 years since I stopped calling, stopped texting. I dip in just enough to see if he has matured and also I’m not going to be labeled as the villain for keeping her away from him. I create moments, he flushes them down the toilet as all narcissists do because they can’t control the narrative. Stop stressing yourself about his actions. I KNOW ITS HARD AF. But the moment you are successful at doing it, you’ll feel better and so will the LO
I’m sorry.
I don’t mean to be rude, but it is not your job to build his relationship with his daughter.
You are already doing your job and veo a single mom is Really hard already.
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