Toxic ex mil

So my ex mil ran into my mom at church yesterday and got out of her car to speak to her
The first thing she asked was how HER son was doing (as in MINE, lol) bc she hasn’t seen him in 2 months bc HER son beat mine with a belt and left bruises. Ofc my son hasn’t wanted to go back, so my mom explained that she could see him if she wanted to if she just asked his mother ( me :) ) , as long as he doesn’t sleep over bc my son isn’t comfortable sleeping over anymore. but of course her and the grandpa said they’re not gonna get involved with that. Okay so then why even bring up that you “miss him” but you never ask about him. On top of that, they ranted for over 15 minutes how THEIR son wasn’t wrong for beating my 4 year old bc if he doesnt get disciplined now, “what will be of him later on?” 💀😭 like PLEASE. Beating a kid over not wanting to eat on THEIR time is ridiculous idgaf what their age is.

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It’s 2024, beating your kid or forcing them to eat- we aren’t doing that anymore. You are right to keep your kid safe. Forcing kids to eat created a whole generation with unhealthy relationships with food. Don’t even get me started on harsh punishment.

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I’m the same way. it pissed me off so bad just hearing about it. my moms not as confrontational as me so she said she just ended up switching the topic bc they wanted to be right so bad.

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That's fucked up! And that same thinking is why he did it in the first place. Good for you mama for breaking that toxic cycle and keeping your baby safe.

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good for you for keeping that toxic sh*^ away from your sweet kiddo.

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Does she run into you or your mom a lot?

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me? Never but my mom, very few times bc they go to the same church but almost never.

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Poor mom.

I heard a lady say to another
L1 "I'm not allowed to talk to you."
L2 "Who told you that"
L1 "my mental health," and she walked away.

L1 is the best at setting boundaries.

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yeah I’ve struggled with setting boundaries but at this point it’s what’s needed.

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A belt and left bruising 😰😭 That poor baby.

That isn't disciplining... That's abusing and assaulting 😭

My momma lion would be all out.

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