I think BM blocked me from seeing her WhatsApp status ?
I noticed a while ago that she hasn’t been posting anything, which was strange since she used to post almost every day but I didn’t really think much about it. Last week my partner was on his phone looking at his contacts WhatsApp statuses and I saw that she posted something but when I went to look on my WhatsApp there was nothing there. I mean we’re not friends and I don’t want to be friends with her but we’re civil. She even sent me a link two weeks ago with some local news but I didn’t respond, I just didn’t think there was nothing for me to say ?
Anyways I don’t even know why I’m asking 😂 I’m just curious, like I said, we are not friends and we don’t communicate, I stay out of the co parenting relationship between her and my partner. Also I remember deleting her number from my contacts because I didn’t see the point of having it, and then saved it again because they needed my help with one of the kids and I was the only person available and she rang me so I saved the number again. These 4 years she’s seemed to be “fine” with me although there was some tension at the beginning cuz she was a bit upset that my partner has moved on and would try to be spiteful and make some comments to get a reaction from my him, but as far as I’m aware that has stopped. She still can be a b!tch at times but my partner handles her.
Thoughts?
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My thoughts are I would just ignore it and move on.
She probably did! I wouldn’t take it personally unless she brings a direct issue to you. I feel weird about my partner’s BM seeing my stuff on socials, even though we’re in a decent place.
so true, I’m defo not taking it personal and to be fair I don’t really care, I haven’t even told my partner about it, just found it weird, she must be having her own issues 🤷🏻♀️
It is definitely a weird thing to notice! I would feel the same way
Yeah, I wouldn’t take it personal. If you guys are cordial & not friends there’s no need to have updates or statuses on one another.
You guys are not friends anyway so I wouldn’t give it any energy. I think too often we’re focused on what BM is doing and should put more focus and energy into ourselves, partner and family 🩷
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