So my husband and I have been together for four years and we’ve dealt with infidelity in the past. He’s in the military so I’ve moved once for him, but when he got stationed overseas last year, My daughter and I stayed with my mom for the year. We were trying to work on a lot of issues during the year that he was deployed before he came back to the states. I was very nervous about moving my entire life again for him to a whole new state. Fast-forward to last week I finally moved in with him and my daughter. Everything was going so perfect. Just to find out 3 days later that he was cheating before I moved down here. So now Ive quit my job, moved, and signed a lease all for nothing. Smh I can’t wait to get divorced. He’s a great father but a shitty husband. Of course he’s trying to convince me to stay with him but I’m so done
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Definitely don’t go back to him/let him make you stay.
He’s going to keep doing it. Don’t let him

Run like hell! Don’t look back. Make him learn his lesson. He just broke his family. It will be hard but you got this momma it won’t be that hard in a few months it years. 🩷 you don’t deserve that at all

His loss you're a very beautiful woman and a great mom, he'll regret it but you deserve better

I keep reminding myself that he’s not going to change regardless of the words he says

I appreciate this💕 It’s super hard and never how I imagined having a family would be but it’s my reality now

thank you so much 🥹 I’m trying my best to get through it

it will be hard at first but eventually will get easier, trust your gut and your intuition.