My brother and our sister in law took control over planning my baby shower . My brother asked me for the list so I gave him the list he sent the invites out on Sunday. He just now telling me he intentionally did not invite one person on my list . Now the person it was was at one point a good friend until a few months ago where well she found her self .but the point is we aren't close any more but she still someone I would hope to atleast be invited for maybe a rekindle of our friend ship . My brother I feel was in the wrong and is always taking control over things he has no business doing . đ am I wrong for feeling sided
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If you wanted control over the shower, you shouldâve organized it yourself imo.
I was and they saw I have a lot on my hands so they said they would . I gave them the list of ppl I wanted and he chose to no invite . So im not sure where your coming from with that .

Iâd ask someone else that is on the invite list that knows this person you want to invite and get them to give them all the details and invite them that way. Itâs your shower, make sure youâre there when they arrive so your brother canât send them away.
@Harriet Thank you . Im going to reach other someone and give her the invite .

Girl just invite her anyways. If they are paper invites. This is your opportunity to reach out to her and ask if she got the invite. Usps is always losing things. I never got this wedding invite for a cousin of mine that's in Sept. But someone reached out on Facebook and asked me if I was going. I told them I hadn't got an invite. They apologized and gave me all the info. I don't think they ever sent one because they never asked for my address but it's okay. They still asked I go. đ good luck.

You donât gotta be an ass about it you couldâve kept that comment to yourself because she definitely did not need that from you. This is an app to support mommas this doesnât look like an app for women like you.

Anyways mama youâre not wrong at all itâs your baby shower at the end of the day and what YOU say goes. My mom and sister tried to do the same until I set my foot down donât let your brother ruin your experience đđ»đ€