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Babydad drama

Found out the other night that my youngest dad and the father of my unborn baby has been so unfaithful to me through our relationship 😩 we started meeting and talking in Jan 2020 and then stopped when covid hit, but got back in contact in 2021 and built a relationship, there was a few teething problems and issues a long the way, but we’d always stayed close. Got pregnant with our first baby in 2022 but we broke up a few months after finding out, but again stayed very close friends and occasionally sleeping together, but going out as a family once baby arrived in 2023. We had both said we hadn’t spoken to or been with anyone else since we got back in contact in 2021, we decided to sort our shit out and get back together end of last year/start of this year and I got pregnant in March with our second baby. I started getting a gut feeling he was up to something and so I distanced myself a little bit, he gaslit and manipulated me that I was thinking things but the relationship was suffering. We had a holiday together and things were shit then. So when we came back I said it wasn’t working but I still cared about him and let’s just be friends and see how things go because we didn’t want to lose each other or the bond we had. I have since found out he has been talking/meeting multiple women since 2021 and after accusing me of being on dating sites has been on them himself. And had jumped into a relationship with another girl. Coming around mine to see our daughter and then telling me how much he loves and misses me, let’s try again blah blah. To then staying at hers after work.
I’m 25 weeks pregnant with our second baby and I’m just feeling so bloody hurt and shocked and don’t know what to do. I’ve spoken to 8 different women he’s been in contact with in the last few months and when we were together. I’m so heartbroken and just don’t know what to do 😭💔

Sorry for the long ass post 🙈 just needed a safe space to vent x