Bd and a paternity test

Girlll are you sure you want your business out there? Both your names are viewable. You might wanna keep this one in the archives

no judgement here. As I'm in the same position.

I left my ex, not knowing I was pregnant (my ex was awful to me, truly) and slept with someone else 2 weeks later because I was god damn free and single to do so! Found I was pregnant another 2 weeks after that and then I was fucked wasn't I. 😂🤷‍♀️

Neither one of them men have shown ANY interest in my child. Babys dad (real dad, because I know who it is from the dates of my scan and we didn't use any protection) isn't interested in the slightest. He's refused a paternity test and refuses to take any responsibility for his child. Stating "its not his...." we never used protection. Trust me, its his.

I dont even think i'm putting the babys dad on the birth certificate because I dont want the babys dad to have parental rights.... And trust me when I say im better off without him. 💪

isn’t that the whole point of this app is to be able to feel comfortable with other moms/women and to get advice.!?

but I feel very judged at this point

Babes f*ck em he wanna think whatever let ‘em tht baby needs PARENTS not a MOTHER & A Man Child that gets in his feelings bcux u moved on & uses that as an excuse for any reasoning to not help out & u definitely did right by making him pay for since he wanna test so bad‼️💯

why are you judging?

you removed your post so was only able to respond now. Not judging love, if you re-read my comment objectively, you can see that I made no judgemental statements. Only asking so you don't regret putting your business out there where both of you are identifiable, you might regret it later hun :)

I left him when my daughter was 6 going on 7 months old. I moved on because I love who I’m with. We dated a few years back. Her daddy is just mad because I left for the reason of drugs and him hiding and I wasn’t gonna raise my daughter in a toxic environment. Point blank. He still wants me but I’m standing my ground and he hates it. The reason why he hasn’t been sending me money is because of the posts I put. He’s been lurking my page.. 40 years old and childish. If he wants test he can pay for it.

he’s only saying she’s not his because I left him and moved on with my life. He’s mad because he still wants me. Well sucks for him he isn’t getting me back. No chance in hell.

He sounds like a man child who is controlling and can't get over you.... x

What said he sound like a man child frfr‼️💯