Heartbroken..again😔

8dp5dt today. Tested this morning as I had a bad feeling (weird I know, but I wanted to come to terms with what’s happening before my otd this weekend), and of course it was a BFN. I’ve read that if you don’t test positive by now, it most likely will remain negative. Our transferred embryo was also hatching, so I doubt it’s a late implanter.

This was our second FET.
Our last FET ended in an early loss. Before that, we had a failed ovulation induction cycle. TTC for 3 years now. Everyone around me is able to get pregnant, other than me. I just feel like this is a never ending battle & the joy has been taken out of it now :(

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I am so sorry to hear this
There are no words, sending lots of love 💫

I’m so sorry 💔 I had an early loss as well and am struggling too. Nothing to say but in this community, we’re in this together. Hoping next round is the one for you. 🫶

It was my test day today, our 4th FET failure. I'm in my 40s now and feel like it's slowing being taken away having my own child. Sending you a virtual hug

Don’t lose hope mama. I waited 6 and half years just to get to my rainbow baby. I know it’s hard but don’t give up, I will be praying for you.

Sending lots of love. It’s a journey I wish no soul should bear. Sending lots of sticky vibes and listen to your doctors and team and keep going. I was ready to give up and got lucky. You’re already a warrior and are so strong and can do this! Hoping your dreams materialise asap. X

Sorry to hear this. Can completely relate. Had a FET 12 days ago which was my third transfer and only embryo left and got a negative today. It is really hard to stay positive. Sending you a hug.

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Baby #2??

I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.