Sex

We are the same!! Have you spoken about it? As long as you are both on the same page I don’t see a problem.

I’m sure if you had a toddler free evening and a night away you would have sex :)

We both work full time and have a toddler with another on the way there is zero time left!!!!!

We’re every couple of months but it used to be every couple of days!!! And been together 15 years so it’s not like we were in honeymoon phase before kids. I can’t believe how much it’s changed, my partner really struggles with it but we talk about it a lot and are really honest in our communication. Have you spoken to your husband about it?

We are back to normal, but have been since about 4 weeks pp. some weeks more, some less but usually twice a week 😂

Same! It’s tough! We’re like house mates but hoping it passes as we get more time as they grow

Nope, we've had another baby since too. Had sex twice when first born was a year old and boom baby no2 lol! He's 5m old now so back to square one on the sexual front. We're struggling with contraception tbh, scared because we (mostly I) don't want another. We've spoken about it numerous times but It seems to go nowhere 😞 what's everyone else using as BC? x

Sex is a big thing for my partner, not so much for me, so I try to put in an effort for him as it helps him feel connected in our relationship. I try to make it at least once every week/once every two weeks but it’s been tough. I feel like my libido has gone through the floor since having a baby but I don’t want to become a sexless couple 🤷‍♀️ not sure how to fix it to be honest.