How would you feel about people...

I'd feel really off about that. Kinda sets up for the future thinking it's okay to keep secrets for adults or not tell parents important things they need to know. Kinda even makes being sneaky a possibility. I mean maybe. If it happens regularly I'd ask them to stop and explain why

ND not specifically at them doing it now. I'm just saying it would be a no from me because of potential future stuff.

Fun and games are how kids learn the world so really even innocent situations are teaching ones and they gotta think about the future... maybe I'm uptight but idc that's how I see it personally

I feel the same and I can't say anything because he doesn't care nor does his family they're alcoholic and drug attics so they keep secrets and I'm totally not okay with it that's why I need to leave it's becoming too much he even tried to lie about not putting my 4 year old in a car seat and my son was telling me he wasn't in his car seat and his dad was denying it. Like that doesn't sit right with me at all! I've explained so many times it's not okay but he says I'm nagging or trying to control him when I'm only trying to protect my babies innocence because no one else will

Exactly If you end up Leavingg I think that would be for the best. If you can manage to.
You got to protect Your own For life. Even if a kid has a split home It will be better And help a lot with teaching right from wrong. Especially since if they have these issues Then I would hope Your little one would be mostly with you anyway

I worry about my little one Being influenced wrongly in the future By my B d and his family as well
. So I feel yeah

I'm
working on it, it's a process. He really laughed at my son possibly drowning so yeah I'm done. He needs supervised visits he does a lot of inappropriate and irresponsible things

Good luck girl 🙏
He sounds awful:/

Yeah! Thanks. I wish you luck as well 😊