bitter grandma

no you wouldn’t be wrong,, stand on business & do whatever you need to to keep yourself & the baby safe

thank you. Because if she really wanted a bond with her grandbaby she would’ve gave me the benefit of the doubt

if she really wanted to she should have dropped the charges especially knowing HE put his hands on you it’s way out of proportion,, & the fact that you’re even questioning this just shows you got good intentions & a kind heart,, bless you

Is this the only reason you wouldn’t? Not to be funny but if he put his hands on you why destroy her property? Did you already pay for the window?

no you wouldn’t be wrong. you were willing to replace the window and at the end of the day her son shouldn’t have even put his hands on you at all. You clearly have good intentions and a kind heart. but if she wanted a bond with her unborn grandchild then she would do what is right and put her son his place for putting his hands on you and drop the charges

what do you mean by only reason i wouldn’t ?

he lives with her. in my eyes i destroyed where he rest his head not her property even tho it is hers. no i didn’t pay for the window because after i offered to pay she didn’t say anything she just told me how she knows im emotional during this time and moved on

I’m asking is this the only tension in yall relationship? You and the mom I mean. If it is I usually don’t recommend putting the child in the middle of adult drama. I think it’s important for a child to have a village and people who love them.

To play devils advocate maybe she continued with the charges because you didn’t fix it and when you talked her saying that was to calm the situation. In this situation she’s getting the shit end of the stick

she will not be allowed to see my child because she hasn’t even done any check ups to make sure that i’m okay while pregnant/ see if i need anything NOTHING. continuing the charges because i didn’t pay id stupid when she didn’t even say that she will drop the charges. i did my part by apologizing and trying to fix the situation, anything after that is on her

Apologizing doesn’t fix her window. But go off 🤷🏽‍♀️ sounds like you just want validation to keep your child away not real opinions.

you don’t even know me or her well enough to assume i’m going off validation. you missed the part where her son literally put his hands on me and i was in escape mode but go off

I didn’t miss anything. That’s a whole separate issue unless you saying it’s her fault that happened. Nothing about the situation you describes lines up with her being bitter. She’s not in the mix of yall drama so yes this post seems like you just wanted yes men to agree with you 🤷🏽‍♀️

until you in my shoes you can keep your opinion to yourself

this group is about baby daddy drama my whole point was about him hitting me and her still pressing charges. i don’t know why you in here if all you trying to do is tell people who you think they are

Girl, no. Your baby, your rules. And how can she not want you at her house but wants your kid around? No.

This post about his mom not him lol you switching the narrative to fit. I’m not telling you who I think you are idk you. His wrongs don’t have nothing to do with her is all I said. Which is why I asked if it’s based on this one situation or a build up of stuff

you obviously don’t agree with her. You don’t have to keep responding. It’s an emotional situation and I’m sure it’s all impossible to fit in all the details, in order.

And if anything, if your son lives with you, he puts hands on me in your house, and in the middle of me trying to get away, I broke a window…. yes I’m holding that lady responsible too. She doesn’t seem too concerned about her grandchild’s mother being beat up on, so why I see her? Because if she was really about something, she would’ve made her son pay for it.🤷🏾‍♀️

it’s not about agreeing I was asking to understand. Her breaking it to get away is different than breaking it cause she felt it was breaking his property since he lives there. Like I said the narrative changed throughout. Imma leave it here though.

You breaking the window trying to get away and breaking it because you wanted to “destroy where he rest his head” is two different things. She was an innocent victim in this (not saying you aren’t a victim, just saying she had no part and her things got destroyed). Personally, I would pay for the window anyway as an act of good faith. Also- Personally my child isn’t going anywhere I’m not welcome that to me makes it a hostile environment against me and lord only knows what they will do and say to my child to get back at me because people are fucking crazy. So if she wants a relationship with her grandchild she can meet you at a park. Then again I’m assuming with charges being pressed you can’t be near her either? No I don’t blame you for keeping the child away if she doesn’t want you around with the child. But yes you should pay for the window. Best of luck!

It sounds like you’re punishing HER for HIS actions. And you wrecked her property in the whole mess of it, and didn’t pay her for the damaged property. It’s not right. If you were worried for the babies safety while she was around the baby, I’d understand that. But I didn’t see anywhere in your post mentioning that 🤷‍♀️

thank you . these other replies of very concerning considering the fact that i’m pregnant and he put his hands on me! I’ve never been in a situation where i needed to explain to people online in every detail like im in court 😅

Neither one would see my baby cause he was beating you and she allowed it had she had stopped him the window wouldn’t be broke in the first place