Doulas

I’m researching doulas and trying to decide if it makes sense for me. Is anyone planning to use a doula? What guided your decision to go that route?

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i did! best decision ever. i wanted someone to support me physically and emotionally during birth (and pregnancy) other than my man

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There is research that having a doula improves birth outcomes. My midwife encouraged it for our first.

Check your insurance. It may be covered or partially covered. We were able to use our FSA account for it.

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I did have a doula and my birth experience was great! I had an induction due to high BP and she was there to support me the whole time

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I had a pediatrician and doula and I can say 100% I loved having both because the doula was amazing at taking care of me and all my things of labor (I had a really horrible and rough labor) so it was amazing having a person who knew me really well and knew what I needed at that moment without me having to say something.

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I went to a childbirth class at my local hospital. They say they welcome doulas, but due to their low nurse to patient ratio, most opt not to use them. I’m supposed to be induced in December. I worry about too many people just in the way. Two nurses, my husband, the Dr, a doula, and family. I don’t want to be overwhelmed. I guess that’s my concern for delivery. Could see the doula being helpful post partum. Just not sure how I feel about using one yet.

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a doulas job is to support your labor and birth however you need. so if you have plenty of support from your husband, and your family during labor then maybe save your money. i chose to have one to help me have the birth i wanted, and since it was just me and my boyfriend she was able to step in when he got tired during labor. plus they are very knowledgeable on all things birth so it was great to have her

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I hired a doula for the hospital delivery.
I want smb there who has enough of educated knowledge to speak on my behalf when i will be in pain/on meds. Hubby will be subjective and swayed by emotions

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Yup-hired her at 12 weeks

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I’m doing a post partum doula, I decided against a birth doula as I will already have my mom and partner present. Plus mom has been a nurse for over 20 years so she is able to advocate for me if I couldn’t

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We hired a doula (interviewed 4), and are excited to have additional support for both me & partner. Will also work with her postpartum since our families are long distance and we’ll want local support.

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