Intimate time

I have a highly stressful and very demanding job. My husband is usually home with the children. He works too. He’s mad at me most days or walks around moping. We got our child in the bed last night, this allowed us time to do the do, but I was thinking about other people and things. Like I wanted to tell him to stop but I knew we hadn’t done it in a while so I just let it be. The issue I have is we’re only one year into marriage. I feel as though last year he told me that I had to get a job that is paying $50,000 or more in order for us to survive. Now that I have it, it’s like ruining the relationship we thought we had. (We were dating for like 10 years engaged for three of those years. The 10 years were not like this we lived in separate homes and I wasn’t working this stressful job.) I don’t think I’m asking for advice. I think I’m just venting, but I’m annoyed and I have issues with this.

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He is usually home with the kids, he works to, he's mad at me most days or walks moping around" - WOW this comment has pi**ed me off!!!! Maybe your husband is the one that should come on here and vent!

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I’m confused, why did this piss you off?

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Let’s be clear, I only had my job for 10 months, so before that I was the one home with the children. He told me that I needed to get a job and that’s what I did. And I’m annoyed with the fact that I can’t focus on my husband.

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