Am I right to be mad?

yes

yeah sooooo i would be LIVID 🫣

he is usually "responsible" but sometimes he does things like this that put me on edge and I feel like I can never fully trust him

Okay leaving a baby in a high chair and leaving the house is insane. If something went wrong, you wouldn’t have even known how it happened. That’s so unsafe man.
And calling you a lazy bitch?! Is that what he said?!

Omg I answered no because I’m used to reading “am I the asshole” posts on Reddit. YES you have every right to be upset. Leaving your child in the high chair is unbelievably dangerous on his part. The way he got upset at you was definitely projecting.

1. Leaving baby in high chair
2. Leaving chicken out like an idiot
3. Not throwing it in the bin?! Why TF did he put it back in the fridge if it was unsafe to eat? Why didn't he text you? Just wtf.
4. Abusive language

Yeah that's 4 totally valid reasons to be mad.

Asking him to own up to his actions, why am I in charge of what YOU took out? Did you tell me? Am I a mind reader? Communicate maybe, and I would’ve known. Why exactly did you do to tell me and was it is my responsibility when you took charge and took it out? And the fact he should try to understand eating at work after a long ahh day isn’t what you want like come on common sense my guy read in between the lines he’s not dumb but he’s acting like he is. Weaponized incompetence all the way

I’d tell him to go find somewhere else to sleep or if I were you I’d tell him you’re leaving since “you’re so lazy” yet he can’t help with a toddler while you’re 23 weeks pregnant.

I’d be LIVID‼️ MULIPLE VALID REASONS TO BE MAD‼️ His mindset and the way he talks about his actions as if it’s nothing and then tries to flip it on you like you’re to blame sounds so ignorant and manipulative. I have a toddler too who’s 17 months right now, and I’m also almost 23 weeks pregnant. I’d be so angry if i woke up and found my toddler out strapped into a high chair with no supervision at all. She even knows how to climb out of her chair and is so curious, so we make sure we’re always watching. Then for him to blame you for leaving chicken out which you were about to eat, and even MORE dangerous with you being pregnant. And then for him to blame you for being tired while you’re already having trouble sleeping and your body is busy working overtime creating LIFE, is so inconsiderate and disrespectful! If that was me, I’d tell him if he ever let that word slip out of his mouth again, he’d be sleeping with the stray b**ch’s outside! Completely disrespectful!

That is neglect. I’d be fuming!

It sounds like he’s doing legitimately dangerous things and then blaming u for being concerned. He’s an asshole, I’d be mad too