He took a DNA test behind my back
My bf took a DNA test behind my back and we says that he didn't tell me or ask me because he didn't know each other that well even though we had already moved in together. I just wanted him to come to me and talk to me and I would've been happy to give him that DNA test. I'm hurt and he's acting nonchalant about it because he says that he didn't know. I'm just hurt that he didn't tell me.
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If you would have been happy to give him the test then why does it really matter? There is obviously no trust in the relationship. You can either end it or not. There is no reason to be grumpy about it if you choose to stay.
The issue I have is him going behind my back and youre right. I don't think either of us trust each other.
You just have to communicate and respect each other. It seems like that might be difficult for him though.
Soo.. he was actually the one that wasn't 100 percent faithful to me in the beginning of our relationship and he justified this by saying that he didn't know that we would be this serious at the time and that he didn't know me that well back then. He cheated with his other BM and I haven't been able to trust him since.
He has always had a hard time being transparent no matter how much I beg him to be and it has me wondering what else he hasn't told me.
He's always making decisions without me and then running it by me later and then when I try to address the issue he tells me that I always have a problem with something and then stone walls me.
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