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Hi my name is cami I am a single mom to a beautiful baby name rain and 20 weeks pregnant with a baby boy named river (still working on the middle nameđ) I am 21 and live on my own. I have two different baby daddyâs sadly the first one was great at first we were together for 5 years but then started arguing everyday because of family issues him not liking my family and me not liking his that much, and one things led to another and we separated. A few months later I met this guy on a dating app and we immediately clicked he moved in with his daughter and my daughter he was there for a few months once I found out I was pregnant he left and moved in with his âfamily so he can get financial help with his daughterâ me being supportive and not thinking anything of it come to find out he was messing with another girl was taking my car to hang out with her and just using me I was so blind I didnât even know I thought he was the one. One day he tells me he is going on a trip to Texas to âsee familyâ and told me he will be back in a week he texted me regularly so again I didnât think anything of it welllll come to find out he moved in with the girl that he was messing with that he met on TikTok and guess what she is pregnant to and they been messing with each other around the same time we were. I was so pissed off when I found out i called his baby mom and told her that he was being his daughter around multiple girls and that maybe she should get her kid. He calls me and was pissed off threatening me telling me that if his kid gets taken away that he is going to kill me and make sure that I would never see my babyâs again. I cut him off and just left it alone because I want to be drama free, but apart of me wants to call the new girl friend and tell her every damn thing! I keep going back in forth in my head just to be the bigger person and focus on my self and my babyâs and that I can just do this all by my self I donât need him to step in as a father if he is gonna be in and out of my life and treating me it is just best for me to move the fuck on. If I could give anyone advice itâs fuck these men even if you feel like itâs the one tread lightly! Because u never know
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Girl I recently went through the same thing with my bd too lol literally the same situation except killing his child cuz girl thatâs wild
He threatened to kill you and threatened your babies, that is insane and I would totally never contact him again. Especially after you give birth in case he gets sad and curious and wants to see his kid. He sounds like absolute trash and if youve already seperated from him then best to never contact him again for the sake of your babies. Ignore the girl, she can find out on her own how horrible he is
yes love when I told him I was pregnant he kept saying he doesnât care and that itâs easy to take care of a baby I should have seen that as a red flag!!!! I blocked him on everything blocked his family members and also told him I had a miscarriage just in case he gets curious and wants to be a dad out of no where you know how men are. But I donât simply donât him around me or my babyâs just of the simple fact of you thought this was ok and you thought threatening me was ok
I would remove myself from the situation and have no contact with him. Your first mistake was letting him move in with you and your child so soon. Shouldâve took the time to get to know him (at least for a year minimum) before he moved in and even met your child. There are men out there that like to prey on vulnerable single moms.
Awww Iâm sorry to hear this! Men can be so fucked up. Luckily, you got rid of his ass before anything else transpired. Iâm praying that everything in your life goes so well beyond your imagination.
I think I wouldnât even reach out to the new girl, sheâs probably gonna stay with him anyway
we were talking for about half a year before he moved in but you are most definitely right should of never allowed him to but he gave me this sob story and was like he has no where to go
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