Husband suddenly locking his WhatsApp?

My husband started to lock his WhatsApp chats, I noticed when he was on his phone he was using fingerprint unlocking - I confronted him about it and he seemed very shifty about it and defensive. He has a history of talking to other women on WhatsApp and instagram behind my back. Conversations that were way past platonic/professional stage. In the past I have looked on his phone and confronted him about it. He said he would stop. Who knows if he has. I feel really upset about the locking WhatsApp and just feel I can’t trust him at all. He recently made a dig about my personality and said that everyone adores him and he’s a great person whilst no one cares and knows me because I am quiet and not as intelligent as him. I am definitely an introvert but the guys who have previously been attracted to me before I married my husband never had an issue with my introverted nature. It doesn’t stop me from doing well in my job either. I haven’t stopped thinking about all of this since and especially the girls he had previously spoken to behind my back are extroverted and I guess the dream girl he always wanted. Sigh. Are my feelings valid? I just don’t feel secure with him at all. We have a 14 month old daughter.

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Girl, leave that man. He sounds like a horrible person and definitely upto something. I have learnt that if a man shows you who he really is, believe him. Being a single parent isn’t so bad it’s hard but rewarding and you’ll find yourself a lot happier.

Oh love, sorry you’ve been through this. I feel you, I’ve got a 5m baby girl and he sounds SO much like her father. He even said he’d take me to court for checking his phone LMAO ofc I found lots of stuff and lies there. I know is easy to say leave him but the sooner the better.. you deserve someone who appreciates and value you, not that make you feel inferior specially when you’re doing a wonderful job as a mummy (I am sure doing it xx) sharing a kid is not the reason to stay Next to someone who mistreated you and is doing emotional damage. Just make sure to get sorted her financial obligations with you and your little one x

His history already proves what type of man he is. Don't even bother working yourself up to make yourself unwell physically and mentally because of this man. He sure as hell isn't doing anything at all to make you feel secure with him. Respect yourself and know your worth by leaving him, it's clearly been going on for a long time not just a one time problem. Do you have family/friends who you can lean onto for support, I know it's easier said then done to leave a relationship, but it sounds like it's your time. I'm sorry he's made you feel like this

You know exactly what he’s doing and everything you’re feeling is valid. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s a horrible feeling.