Someone please give me advice I’m losing my mind :(
My baby daddy/ boyfriend works overnights & communicated with me that he wants to have sex with one of his coworkers. We’ve had conversations about having another person before but never went through with it. I told him I feel uncomfortable with that and he doesn’t understand why I feel that way. She asked him for his Snapchat and he gave it to her then lied about it to me until I found out on my own. He’s with her every night and swears that he didn’t do anything yet and that he’s not going to because I don’t want him to but idk if I trust that I mean I feel like I would be stupid if I did. I had a weird gut feeling before he even mentioned anything about her. Btw I never had issues trusting him before this. I don’t know what to do it’s keeping me up all night every night.
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He’s probably done it already. From the min u tell me u want to sleep with someone else it’s over. Please don’t be losing sleep over a man like this. Put more value on urself! He wants her? Let him have her and u move on do the best co-parenting and don’t let this man have access to you anymore.
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Sorryyyy, I would not trust this man. They are definitely at the VERY VERY LEAST exchanging things via Snapchat and flirting at work. I guarantee they have spoken about sleeping together which is why he’s told you he wants to and doesn’t understand why you’d feel uncomfortable. Would he say that about a specific person who wasn’t already on the same page about having sex with him. He hasn’t done anything ‘YET’ so he definitely plans on… I wouldn’t be able to trust him ever again. When you say you’ve discussed about having another person is this by yourselves outside the relationship or sharing someone together? I’m not comfortable with either, but they are very different things and he shouldn’t have instigated/even let someone else know he was interested without speaking to you prior.