Just found out BD cheated on me

Have you confronted him? What are your living circumstances?

If living together I’d recommend finding a place or family as soon as possible and not saying anything. I’d just leave and leave a note or text. Block him on everything but phone number and cheaters always try their hardest to lie, guilt or ‘say how much they love you and so sorry’ or even get mad and you don’t want any of that. Say you only want him to contact your number regarding your child and that’s it (if that is what you want) it’s a really hard thing to go though and I’m so sorry you are going through this 😥 I hope it’s a easy transition and move on for you and that you find real happiness. It’s hard but you are strong enough to push though this ❤️❤️ message whenever you need

Thank you, and yes I did confront him and showed him the text messages. He didn’t have much to say and didn’t show any remorse. I just got the baby and our stuff and left. Luckily we don’t live together so it makes that part easy. I guess I’m just in disbelief he actually did that to me, 2 days before our baby shower and my birthday.

They seem to always do it at such hurtful times x things will get better stay strong and don’t give in xx

Sorry sweetheart. Luckily yall don’t live together and the best thing you can do is keep it cute and coparent while severing all emotional ties and date other people. Please live your life and don’t worry about him

I found out my ex cheated on me with 5 girls when I was 6 weeks pregnant. Wanna know how I found out. I was added to a group chat with the 5 other women because they too were also pregnant. Luckily I had already broke up with him 2 weeks before because he was very violent. And luckily he wanted nothing to do with my baby nor the others (which I feel horrible for of course) but he fled the states to avoid everything. Yeah he moved back to England to avoid his responsibilities. Btw my son is 10 months now and I couldn’t be happier. Your baby will make you see your worth I promise you that. Because you won’t want anyone who doesn’t respect your child. You’ll value someone so much more when you find your person I promise you that. Because they won’t care that you have a kid. My bf doesn’t. And he LOVES my son now. Treats him like he is his son. Goes on walks with him, even lets me get a nap in and plays with him sometimes. That’s something I know his bio father would never do.

Not to mention him leaving works out great because I get to raise my son how I want to. I get to teach him how to respect others. My ex would NEVER do that. Plus my boyfriend now makes me just feel safe. I wouldn’t want anyone who doesn’t feel safe. But take time. Heal get to love your child now. That person will come to be on its own time. But you will get that person. I promise. Just love in your child and raise your child how you want your child to see others, how to respect others, etc. that’s what you can do. Don’t fall back into it just because it’s “convenient ” it’s not. It will only hurt your family down the road, and your child will see it too the older they get