He keeps hiding my vibrators charger!!

I’m a shy woman and would never cheat or such with another man but I have needs too and I’m getting so fed up of my baby’s daddy coming in and hiding my charger for my toy. I have sex with him whenever he damn wants but whenever he’s at work and I feel an urge I need to relieve myself and I can’t if he keeps hiding it every time!! I never hide his things but he likes to hide it and I’m so frustrated and angry I have bought another vibrator but he did the same thing. He said he has no problem with me using it when he is not around but then goes and hides it. I’m embarrassed to bring it up to him again but I seriously don’t understand why he has to rummage through my belongings and take the charger

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My fiance did the same a couple months after I had our daughter as a "joke" and when I mentioned it he told me he didn't remember where he put it. My mother ended up having an extra charger of the same type so she gave it to me and I just never told my fiance cuz I ain't risking it

He’s insecure & feels a need to control you in that sense. Hide your charger better if you’re not gonna bring it up.

he sucks for trying to control your body like that. he's probably hoping you'd be too embarrassed to ask, but honestly, this is a massive problem. if it were me, I would hide the power cord to one of his game consoles and tell him that he'll get his back if I get mine back 🤷‍♀️ but I'm petty lol. in reality though, this is really something that needs to be talked about because it's disrespectful and it reeks of insecurity.

How pathetic lmao

It's controlling behaviour to do that. You need to point that out to him and calling him out on his nonsense. He probably won't expect you to call him out on it.