Boyfriend still loves BM but I might be pregnant
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and what did he say ? was it a negative or positive reaction ?
He doesn’t want the child
He said he’s not gonna tell anyone about the baby if I am pregnant even his baby mama and now they are back together
I feel so used. He said he only was with me to try to move on but his BM now want him back and he going back
He said he would only tell her if I am pregnant and have a child when they get married . Hopefully I’m not pregnant so I don’t have to go through this with him but if I am so be it
@Johnna
okay so with that being said and you already said if you are pregnant you want to keep it, so you know he doesn’t want the baby which means he’s most likely not going to be around and I know how guys are so he’ll probably have some typa resentment towards you too. but he told what it is already guys can be so immature, so then you can’t be mad that he won’t be around. If you think you’re ready to raise a baby alone then go for it.
text me if you want to pls ! I’ve never been in this situation but know a guy who did go through it 🤦🏻♀️
He first said he wasn’t going to be around then He said he is going to be around and it doesn’t matter to if he is or not . I just don’t know how to feel right now like he nutted inside me knowing he would go back to his BM if she asked
He even told me he wanted a baby with me and we started working on it too and now he leaves me and tells me he’s going back to his BM
But now I am probably pregnant
how old are his other kids ?
@Johnna he has one. The child is almost 2
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That’s still fairly new 🫠 but I mean if you are pregnant just weigh out your options, would you really want the child’s father to hide he/she from his family, meaning they won’t even know their sibling.
Just first see if you're pregnant. Then it's your choice, not his. Whether he chooses to tell her or not, the truth will come out. Even if you are not pregnant tell her.
He actually said he would only tell her you were pregnant and had his child when they got married?? Wow what a piece of shit! 😳 Do you know how to contact her? Even if you aren’t pregnant I would tell her that you and him were having unprotected sex and he was planning a baby with you. She needs to know the truth before getting back with him. Tell her what he said he was planning to do if you were pregnant about dropping it on after getting married!
I’ve been trying to find her
If someone tells you who they are, believe them. Hes told you he doesnt have interest in raising this baby, and hes willing to lie to his current partner until she is trapped in a marrage with him. Hes showing you the kind of man he is so take him at his word. Only go through with this if you are totaly sure you want to do this on your own. Prepare to collect child support and make sure you get everything in writing from now on. Im sorry he did you like this, but it may be for the best so that your child does not see him as a role model in the future
You’re right . I’m pretty much okay with resources and everything I don’t really have to worry about finances . I’m in a good position to raise a child on my own. It’s really hurtful truly how he did this @Victoria
He said he would still help with the child he pretty much sounded unsure but I take it as he’s not gonna be there because he has lied so much already to me
I know. But hopefully this can be a new start for you and a better chapter. Bezt of luck
does he know you missed your period ?