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I agree ^ but girl get that reduction! Telling you “you aren’t allowed” is insane. At the end of the day you’re in YOUR body
Is the reason he says no financial? What is the reason if it isn’t financial? I agree if you want a breast reduction you should get one but if you don’t have the money then it is hard to do. If you leave him you still won’t have the money for sometime since you will need to get a job and pay all the bills.
He can't make you Stay boo. And if u want the breast reduction then get it.
@Christina he doesn't want my boobs to be smaller
Sorry to be in your business but but it's not he wants.. most importantly is about you and it's medical problem and if he don't see that then you should leave sorry not sorry
I would leave with that thought process. If he is willing to risk your comfort and health for physical lust he’s not the one for anyone. That’s disgusting to me in a million ways:
I'd say its my body I need it doing, its causing me pain I want it done dont rely on his finances to support you find away of making your own finances, if your at home find sumit do online to sell even if its just making you £100 a week or dumit its better than nothing use that money for yourself , don't tell him no women should rely on man's money this is 21st century not 1920s hate it when I here women say this you don't need a man to make your life style , if he can't understand why you want it done then tell him if he don't like it then thats on him your body your health your situation not his , if he leaves then that's his choice be happy within yourself not through a man
I’d absolutely leave, if he is putting his attraction to you over your wellbeing he isn’t the one. Also, his attraction and relationship with you shouldn’t be based on how big your boobs are! you are the mother of his child he should think you are beautiful and love you no matter what. clearly a very materialistic man, and his love sounds very conditional xxx
Stay and get the reduction .. or leave and get the reductions. Why do we let our partner be our father ?? I do the same . I ask and let my partner boss me around and later I’m like wtf ??!!! He’s a child himself why the fuck am I asking him for permission for things that shouldn’t be an issue…. Just own ur individuality and do what’s best for u. Ur partner does not own u .