Baby daddy

he needs to leave her is what he needs to do

Honestly, not much you can do

she doesn’t is the thing but he did go off on her because it’s his little girl she wished harm upon and I hung up the second she wished harm on my baby girl because she said both things in the same breath

She definitely sounds like she’ll be a danger to your child if he allows her around your baby. I’d make sure to make that a point to him.

I don’t think he’ll be with her for very much longer that was because i know he went off on her for wishing us harm and trying to justify saying it side note i was driving when she said it

I hope so because that kind of behavior is just disgusting. Not to mention she’s going to have to get over y’all communicating, you are having a child together, she’s got no say in the matter.

that’s what I said and she told me I had no right to have a private conversation with him and that I needed to grow up but she’s the one that needs to grow up she also told me that I shouldn’t even try to talk to him anymore and honestly I have no idea why he got with her but I also texted his mom baby girls grandma and told her what she said and his mom will probably rip him a new one tomorrow

😂 she’s sounds like an insecure child. Y’all obviously aren’t together for a reason and if she doesn’t trust him enough to even let him talk to people, they don’t need to be together. Luckily my stepdaughters mom and I get along.

the funny thing is me and him were on a break i didn’t know he had broken broken up with me till middle of last week when he told me he got a new gf

Omg so this is a very new girlfriend and she’s acting that crazy. Wtf.

he’s only been with her a month from what I know and we were together for two years

someone on here is lowkey trying to defend her actions

How immature and vile is she? If she didn’t want a man to have contact with his ex she should have got with someone who didn’t have children! I’d have serious words with your bd and say if I hear anything like that from her again that’s it no contact! You don’t want your child around that poison and I definitely wouldn’t trust her around my kid either

Did he know her prior to y’all splitting? If not it kinda sounds like he cheated or left for her.

no not my knowledge

it’ll probably be talked about between us later today but I’m only going to speak to him if she’s not there ain’t putting my little girl through that also I’m just barely 7 months pregnant

she can call the police and report her for what she said! That’s what she can do

I can?

You have every right have a private conversation with your baby daddy about your child he gotta put his gf in check

i honestly don’t think he’s going to stay with her after her saying that and the fact that i know him and know that his little girl is something he’s been looking forward to

Okay

I would refuse contact when baby is born that is vile. I do not care how much I dislike anyone I would never tell them to do that. If he wants to see his child he can do it through visits and court if that thing is staying in his life. I hope you are okay and try to relax your emotions it isn’t good for the baby if you get upset x

police ain’t going to care because she didn’t say she would be the one to off her. Police are going to say that it is someone expressing their feelings and since it was on the phone call there is no proof to show the police

still a serious thing about her life and her unborn child.

Can you record a phone call on your phone because I can on mine I got an iPhone

yeah i just forgot to do so because i was mortified

Next time record it when he answers and if she’s there it’ll catch her voice saying shit about you xx

I don’t think I’ll have to

recording calls depends on your state and family court regulations. Most states are 2 party consent states

No I don’t think so either but if you find out they stayed together even after this (doubt they will) then record every conversation on the phone you have

yeah also they are not together anymore

they aren’t staying together

I wish my bd would break up with his gf because she's been vile to me and threatend to come up to my house and beat me up. I'll hold my hands up when she started to be vile I was vile back but that's because he wouldn't stand up to her. She's got some hold on him but now he's blocked me so if anything happends to me or our daughter I can't get hold of him.

I’m sorry girl that’s horrible but thankfully he went off on her for saying that and the other people there went off on her

they ain’t together anymore so I ain’t gotta worry about it anymore

Thank god! I was fuming when I read what she said to you. It really baffles me how so many grown women act like that and think it’s ok.

she tried to justify it to me after apologizing for saying it

There’s no way to justify that.

she was sure trying to but it’s not getting to me I gotta therapy appointment Wednesday and I talked to his mom about the situation for 30 minutes and then probably spent another hour and a half later in the day just talking with her about life and stuff with baby girl and the baby shower she’s throwing me

It really is I'm hoping he sees her for what she is a monster. She's also keeping him away from our daughter.

he left her after that and she totally was trying to keep him away from baby girl

I'm hoping mine sees it as she's keeping him away from his daughter too and he'll leave her.

honestly I’m sorry you are going through it too I hate women like that and they really don’t see that there causing harm or they do and just don’t care

I just don't think she cares. They both dragged me into their joke of a relationship she did it to push me out of his life so she's won in the end. But as I've said she does drugs. Xxx

and that’s definitely not something or someone you want around your child

Oh god no . Our daughter is allergic to cats and short haird dogs like he is. But he's had an allergy shot so he's not allergic to them at the moment. So I deffo don't want my daughter around that environment or the fact she does drugs. We're on a no contact at the moment not going lie it's really hurting me at the moment.

I understand that

It's so hard it's easy for him he's getting on with his life and the fact that we're not in it so it's easy for him. He's blocked me. He used to brighten my day when he'd ring but now I sit there waiting and hoping he will ring and he just doesn't. I feel like I'm stuck in limbo and I just can't get out at all.

I have definitely been there and it does suck

It really does suck. Alls I can do is hope and pray he sees his senses soon enough. Xx