I broke up with my baby’s father back in June, with the thought and hope could work things out . Fast forward to now, my feelings have changed from a romantic love to just a familial type of love. I still care for him and want him to be happy but I don’t think I will be with him again as a couple. The goals we have in life are too different and our morals are too. I’ve made the mistake of being intimate with him recently around New Years after a few drinks. I’ve also drunk called and told him I missed our family. But I think that’s it not that I miss him. How do I break things off? He wants to try again and I don’t. I just am really bad at being straight forward I don’t know how to tell him. I’ve also met someone I really like that I haven’t pursued because I don’t want my bd to know. I just don’t know how to say/approach it.
Any advice is helpful.
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I think the best thing would be to just be open and honest about everything and say you were drunk those times the other things happen and that you’re grateful for the family you were given, but maybe just being together isn’t in the books for you too